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i've heard that to get over your ex it takes the whole period of time in which you have dated for to get over them.

so you passed that period of time in which apparently you will get over your ex... for example... you went out with your ex for 4 months and 5 months later you're still not over him?

problem much?

now put into context that you have a compulsive disorder within yourself and you can't stop yourself from calling/ texting your ex's number beacuase you still have feelings for them.

is the only way to stop this to get your ex to change their number so that you have absolutley no contact with them what so ever? or is this just asking for too much?
 

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Uh I'd say asking to change his number is too much, it's a massive inconvenience. Rather than getting him to change/do anything, I'd say you should probably focus on what you can do.
 

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i've heard that to get over your ex it takes the whole period of time in which you have dated for to get over them.

so you passed that period of time in which apparently you will get over your ex... for example... you went out with your ex for 4 months and 5 months later you're still not over him?

problem much?

now put into context that you have a compulsive disorder within yourself and you can't stop yourself from calling/ texting your ex's number beacuase you still have feelings for them.

is the only way to stop this to get your ex to change their number so that you have absolutley no contact with them what so ever? or is this just asking for too much?
Leave the poor kid alone, imagine how long it's going to take him to get over the fact that he was dating a stupid whore!
 

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she's a "stupid whore" because she likes a guy :confused:
 

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Put any internet sites that remind you of him in your list of blocked websites in your anti-virus program and get someone you trust to make the password.

As for the phone, if you have the numbers in the phone book or on speed dial, change a few of the numbers around or add one and forget about it so that when you go to call them, it doesn't work.

Getting over an ex is really hard, but you'll get there :)
 
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Put any internet sites that remind you of him in your list of blocked websites in your anti-virus program and get someone you trust to make the password.

As for the phone, if you have the numbers in the phone book or on speed dial, change a few of the numbers around or add one and forget about it so that when you go to call them, it doesn't work.

Getting over an ex is really hard, but you'll get there :)
too bad i already deleted all his numbers off all my fones.. but the problem is i memorised it for so long that i cant seem to forget it.

and theres no internet sites that remind me of him so yeah that wont work either.
 

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give it a few months.

you'll live.

i thought the 'ex effect' was referring to how ex's always get hotter after u just break up with 'em
 
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umm yeah i'll live

mind you its been 5 months... which probably exceeds a few months that u have suggested
 

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umm yeah i'll live

mind you its been 5 months... which probably exceeds a few months that u have suggested
get hung up on someone for a year then talk .

give it time, you'll be over it before you know it.
 

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too bad i already deleted all his numbers off all my fones.. but the problem is i memorised it for so long that i cant seem to forget it.

and theres no internet sites that remind me of him so yeah that wont work either.

you're welcome =/
 

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hahah fuck off

if you arent over it in 1 month you are a fucking weirdo
 

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is the only way to stop this to get your ex to change their number so that you have absolutley no contact with them what so ever? or is this just asking for too much?
No wonder he broke it off with you. Delete his number, never speak to him again, move on. It isn't his problem that you can't stop texting him, its your problem.
 

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You really need to leave this guy alone. He can get an AVO against you and you do NOT want that.

It's over. just leave him be. It's probably hard for you to fathom that at the moment but please realise how crazy you're acting. What would any future guy think of you?
 

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You really need to leave this guy alone. He can get an AVO against you and you do NOT want that.
absolutely agreed, remember if you have an avo out against you, you cant get a gun license for 10 years minimum.
 

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absolutely agreed, remember if you have an avo out against you, you cant get a gun license for 10 years minimum.
and how else would you kill his next girlfriend?

Jokes.
 
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and how else would you kill his next girlfriend?

Jokes.

LMAOOOOOO

na im not that crazy ahah... not psycho killer "if i cant have you no one can" kinda thing

its just he never told me YES or NO. so thats why i was stuck on him... coz i asked him if it would ever work. he never gave me a straight answer. just ignored me.

if i get a straight answer im all good. ill move on. but hes so stubborn!

men these days................
 

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LMAOOOOOO

na im not that crazy ahah... not psycho killer "if i cant have you no one can" kinda thing

its just he never told me YES or NO. so thats why i was stuck on him... coz i asked him if it would ever work. he never gave me a straight answer. just ignored me.

if i get a straight answer im all good. ill move on. but hes so stubborn!

men these days................
Because he wants to keep you hooked because it's fun to see you make an ass out of yourself =\

He's not expending the same effort into the "relationship" as you. There's your answer: he's not interested.
 

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go on a slut spree, post your naked pictures on the interwebz, fuck all his friends etc etc etc... you'll forget him in no time.
 

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