Being used in a relationship (1 Viewer)
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preferably i'd like to hear from girls + guys about whether said rules apply to them.
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Because the plural of anecdote is fact???
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lol because so much of the statements made on BOS are fact.
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omg complicate my life.
Okay so you're with a girl. Things are great. She's fun and cool and sex is great.
And you say I love you
and she says uhm...
and you say wtf.
and she says "I have to be honest with you.. I'm only in this because you're great in bed".
your feelings are...?!
Okay so you're with a girl. Things are great. She's fun and cool and sex is great.
And you say I love you
and she says uhm...
and you say wtf.
and she says "I have to be honest with you.. I'm only in this because you're great in bed".
your feelings are...?!
Omie Jay
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*terminates relationship*
Daipire
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Yay! I'm great in bed!
Daipire
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What's his deal? Me Ay0 and Omie like, make l&r (seriously like a quarter of the posts lately are ours)
EDIT: Back on topic, wouldn't like to get used for revenge on an ex-boyfriend, call me old fashioned
EDIT: Back on topic, wouldn't like to get used for revenge on an ex-boyfriend, call me old fashioned
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Anyway, before we were rudely interrupted by breaking...
If you got used for revenge, not 'used' in a spelunking manner mind you, just if a someone dated you to get some very petty revenge.
What would you do?
EDIT: And this person was awesome, an adonis, the exact opposite of breaking!
If you got used for revenge, not 'used' in a spelunking manner mind you, just if a someone dated you to get some very petty revenge.
What would you do?
EDIT: And this person was awesome, an adonis, the exact opposite of breaking!
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All offtopic crap goes in NS.
Which is why this thread just got shorter.
And like espo said, there's a number of other factors that would influence a decision in any of the above cases. Generalisations and relationships really don't get you anywhere.
Which is why this thread just got shorter.
And like espo said, there's a number of other factors that would influence a decision in any of the above cases. Generalisations and relationships really don't get you anywhere.
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I'd be pretty angry.
Then I would realise that I'm 17 and I will go through a hell of a lot worse things than being dated for revenge.
Also I will probably miss the arm/eye candy :S
Daipire
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Really? I could have sworn I'd have someone staying with them with that breaking remark heheh.
Anyway how could someone be used for money? you mean like 10 things I hate about you?
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Scenario 1:
My ex used to ask me for money all the time [to pay off his "debts"]. I gave him 400. He kept asking. I ended the relationship.
Very blatant usage for money.
Less blatant:
My friend's girlfriend always makes him drive her to tafe & work regardless of how inconvenient it may be for him. She'll gush over an item of clothing in the shops and make googly eyes at him. Always wants to go Gold Class when they go to movies. Always has him pay for food. Etc.
My ex used to ask me for money all the time [to pay off his "debts"]. I gave him 400. He kept asking. I ended the relationship.
Very blatant usage for money.
Less blatant:
My friend's girlfriend always makes him drive her to tafe & work regardless of how inconvenient it may be for him. She'll gush over an item of clothing in the shops and make googly eyes at him. Always wants to go Gold Class when they go to movies. Always has him pay for food. Etc.
katietheskatie
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why bother deleting shit in l&r, it's just the same rehashed bullshit anyway
Daipire
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Quick katie! mention the topic or you'll get killed!
And people who use relationships as financial means are dickweeds (pubic hairs)
jennyfromdabloc
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I don't mind being used for money.
It allows me to get attractive girls, despite my repulsive appearance and debilitating social awkwardness.
I've also calculated that paying for dates is marginally cheaper than going to prostitutes, however you have to have sex multiple times each night for the savings to be worthwhile.
It allows me to get attractive girls, despite my repulsive appearance and debilitating social awkwardness.
I've also calculated that paying for dates is marginally cheaper than going to prostitutes, however you have to have sex multiple times each night for the savings to be worthwhile.
Daipire
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At least with a prositute you're guaranteed action...
In my dark, twisted mind, if you ask anyone for money you can't pay back, you sir, are an anus. I don't care how attractive you may be, double standards shouldn't exist in finances (By the way, I'm going into financial planning, so that's why i feel strongly about it)