Yeah tbh my info in that post is more directed at guys who are aiming to look like this:
The calorie thing is for dudes looking to get absolute optimum results weightlifting in order to look like beasts. They often use steroids/illegal supplements as well as legal ones too. If you're insistent on counting calories (you don't really need to be), post up what your BMR is atm and others can decide whether it's important to count calories (do you even know how to do this yet?) or if you need to improve your BMR. Just as an aside: never tell anyone you are counting your calories because people will immediately become concerned if you're trying to lose fat at your current size and age. Don't pay attention to weight
ever because it's irrelevant to everything. Just look at how your body is shaping up. Progress photos (don't put them on here if you're concerned for your safety, etc.) can help a lot.
Mainly: exercise via cardio/free weight training (either bodyweight or addition of extra weight (
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bodyweight_exercise)) and don't avoid eating entirely, but just crap food. You *need* to eat when you are hungry. Look into the subject more yourself so you can design your own diet, your own fitness regime and what not to tailor to your needs and situation.
EDIT: It is also important for psychological health to view your body as a work in progress. If you obtain results, be excited but don't go crazy with your diet or exercise to accelerate fat loss. That will be ultimately unhealthy. Conversely, if you expect results faster then they are occurring, don't see it as a failure, but a chance to improve. Keep yourself positive.