Prelim 2015 Chit Chat Thread (11 Viewers)

[Sien]

So you start dating a girl and she is the PERFECT girl for you and fits all your criterias. She didnt go uni or tafe but lies to you that she did, cause shes afraid you'll dump her. Months pass and you really dig her, hang with her nearly everyday and even your parents love her. Then one day she tells you she doesnt have a tertiary education. Do you dump her or nah?


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I only made this criteria because I don't want my partner to be financially dependent on me 100%. If I rlly like her I'm gonna keep her ofc . If she doesn't have a stable income, she's gonna go to tafe so yea

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[DatAtarLyfe]

I only made this criteria because I don't want my partner to be financially dependent on me 100%. If I rlly like her I'm gonna keep her ofc . If she doesn't have a stable income, she's gonna go to tafe so yea

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So you'll force her to go to tafe? Even if she doesn't want to and wants pursue a career in something like acting which she is failing at?
If someone gets this reference about not going college/uni and being a failed actor, i'll give you a cookie

 

[MilkyCat_]

Weird question here but
If I'm going through a family breakup process atm will I be able to get bonus points next year or nah?

 

[Sien]

So you'll force her to go to tafe? Even if she doesn't want to and wants pursue a career in something like acting which she is failing at?
If someone gets this reference about not going college/uni and being a failed actor, i'll give you a cookie

She can do tafe part time then. If she had been failing for years then I think it's time for her give up
Tbh I don't want to be teamcarry in the relationship

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[Sien]

Weird question here but
If I'm going through a family breakup process atm will I be able to get bonus points next year or nah?

Maybe

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[RivalryofTroll]

So you start dating a girl and she is the PERFECT girl for you and fits all your criterias. She didnt go uni or tafe but lies to you that she did, cause shes afraid you'll dump her. Months pass and you really dig her, hang with her nearly everyday and even your parents love her. Then one day she tells you she doesnt have a tertiary education. Do you dump her or nah?

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My view is that:

If they have ambition or are working towards something productive, it doesn't really matter if they have a tertiary education or not.

I mean it's all about trust and support. You have to trust that your partner is actually working towards something and that they have a productive goal for the future. This may mean that you have to support them temporarily until they reach such a goal.

Hahahaha! Well at least your cousin is picking him/her-self up by taking up some work to earn some income
Its just that, I know he's a smart kid. And the only thing that makes him bad at school is that he doesn't like sucking dick and answering exam questions the way they expect him to. He rebels everyone and everything LOL.

I'm just worried. I have seen him fell in Year 11 when he lost his subjects and I had rather not see him have no where to go either.
Of course, he has ambitions, he wanted to aim at a lower Science course to fulfill his passion and probably look to do Law (since it is his passion as well). But I don't want him to have no where to go in regards of education. I stressed it enough, I find it so attractive when someone is highly educated LOL

Do Science in first year than transfer into Science/Law is an option for him or do Science/Law at a different university (besides USYD/UNSW).

Know a person who did Criminology at UNSW in their first year (they had an ATAR of below 90) and by working hard in university, transferred into Criminology/Law in their second year (which is a 99.70 course at UNSW).

 

[nerdasdasd]

Weird question here but
If I'm going through a family breakup process atm will I be able to get bonus points next year or nah?

Yes . Thorough EAS you can.

http://www.uac.edu.au/documents/eas/eas-booklet.pdf

Page 16.

 

[WrittenLoveLetters]

My view is that:

If they have ambition or are working towards something productive, it doesn't really matter if they have a tertiary education or not.

I mean it's all about trust and support. You have to trust that your partner is actually working towards something and that they have a productive goal for the future. This may mean that you have to support them temporarily until they reach such a goal.



Do Science in first year than transfer into Science/Law is an option for him or do Science/Law at a different university (besides USYD/UNSW).

Know a person who did Criminology at UNSW in their first year (they had an ATAR of below 90) and by working hard in university, transferred into Criminology/Law in their second year (which is a 99.70 course at UNSW).

He can do whatever course he wants, as long as he's happy to study it and chase whatever Thats a huge thing I never based our relationship on. I might have came off a little rough on considering a break up over education, but I realise its the laziness to chase those ambitions that really make me worry about the long term future.

 

[DatAtarLyfe]

My view is that:

If they have ambition or are working towards something productive, it doesn't really matter if they have a tertiary education or not.

I mean it's all about trust and support. You have to trust that your partner is actually working towards something and that they have a productive goal for the future. This may mean that you have to support them temporarily until they reach such a goal.

THANK YOU!!! this is the answer i've been looking for. LEARN SIEN, LEARN!!

 

[Sien]

THANK YOU!!! this is the answer i've been looking for. LEARN SIEN, LEARN!!

i'm already willing to compromise v

She can do tafe part time then. If she had been failing for years then I think it's time for her give up
Tbh I don't want to be teamcarry in the relationship

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i'm not that reliable so at least she has a skill she can fall back on if she fails or something

 

[WrittenLoveLetters]

I think everyone has different "expectations" of their partner, as having someone who is just dead weight (as an extreme) and doesn't contribute to the relationship isn't healthy in my opinion. Sure they may be great eye candy, but if thats all they are, they aren't worth my time :c

I sound too harsh though, I don't know.

 

[Sien]

I think everyone has different "expectations" of their partner, as having someone who is just dead weight (as an extreme) and doesn't contribute to the relationship isn't healthy in my opinion. Sure they may be great eye candy, but if thats all they are, they aren't worth my time :c

I sound too harsh though, I don't know.

if she is like 100% financially dependent on me with virtually little to no income, and one day I lose my job or something, she's going to be living in poverty. I don't want that, she can pursue her dreams as long she has an employable skill she can fall back on.

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[MilkyCat_]

>Meet ur lover at uni
>make sure they don't do an arts degree
>no worries

 

[DatAtarLyfe]

I think everyone has different "expectations" of their partner, as having someone who is just dead weight (as an extreme) and doesn't contribute to the relationship isn't healthy in my opinion. Sure they may be great eye candy, but if thats all they are, they aren't worth my time :c

I sound too harsh though, I don't know.

Lol, if all they is eye candy then they should get dumped. Relationships should definitely have a balanced give-take ratio, but that's not to say if a girl/guy is unable to contribute as much as you are, in any aspect, that you should let them go. It's all about supporting each other throughout the rough patches. Imagine you had financial problems or lost your job and really need your partners support but they just turn around and say" "soz, got 99 problems and you aint one anymore", never to be seen again.
Ofc, if they don't contribute at all and just sit at home doing feck all, then they should definitely be gone. But relating to your story WLL, he's just going through a rough patch and he needs your support atm. His probs realised his f'd up and trying to pull it back, which can be an eye opener for him for the future. Just give him time cause i think you read wayy to much into it. Plus remember, his still a teen so he still got time to straighten out.

 

[Sien]

This thread is getting too deep

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[MilkyCat_]

This thread is getting too deep

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I agree
We need more quality bants

 

[DatAtarLyfe]

I agree
We need more quality bants

Me and you milf, 1v1

 

[Sien]

I agree
We need more quality bants

I've never been in a relationship or had a crush so lel if I said something ignorant, just blame it on my naivety. but atm I feel thats the most logical way of doing things

I agree need to banter more

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[enigma_1]

Hey guys roughly when do your prelims start?

 

[Sien]

Hey guys roughly when do your prelims start?

Wild enigma appears
<3 mif

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