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today, in my bed, with no one home... exciting ey

hmm... i don't think so... since then hes self-esteem has got significantly better... still a bit low tho...these things happen with time... i had fairly low self esteem just b4 all this started... and i think im fairly normal now tho! (having a long term bf who feeds my ego helps tho :P)

"tell him to stop being a nice guy. infact he should act like a complete asshole atleast for a while to get out of the nice guy routine. once he stops being nice and starts looking out for his own interests then he will be dateable. he wil be able to approach girls because he wont care about...

yeh... ah well... oh, i have a second question, cant be bothered to start a new thread... see when this friend of mine first met me... he realy liked me, and as i was hopeleslly head over heels with a guy who was totally out of my league :P i was completely uniterested.... ppl who've been in...

yes, i agree he SHOULDN'T care... but as things stands he's all awkward about it... and it kinda happens to him all the time... he reckons he's practically "undateable" cos of it all... self-esteem needs boosting really

not sure i see the logic in that, but if someone gets their hopes up after having made a move on someone... theyre bound to feel disappointed... and he's fairly sensitive about himself... puts himself down easily, so he'd feel like an idiot. i spose. being a girl who expects to be approached, i...

btw, not trying to mother him... when a friend asks for advice, i usually try to help... thats all :)

well, wat i mean by "taking things too slow" is that he never appears to be interested in a girl... he's a bit on the shy side and doesnt want to look like an idiot if it turns out theyre not interested. i reckon he needs a bit more "go get em" - if he misses a couple of times, no biggie, in the...

hmm, yeh... but i think his problem is more taking things too slow... he's the perfect best friend in everyway, but he just sets himself up as a "friend" as soon as he meets a girl...

ok. my very best "guy" friend has a real knack for getting himself into situations where he likes a girl and all they want is to be friends. i was the first girl this happened with a couple of years ago unfortunately, so i want to try my best to make things better for him... anyone got any advice?