Best characteristics in a guy (4 Viewers)

[Korn]

This is for the ladies.

What are the attributes (or whatever the fuck you wanna call em) in a guy?

This is likely to be a question in a lot of guys minds out there.
To be fair to you ladiez im also gonna create one for the guys to answer

 

[Original_Angel]

great personality - but prior to that, something to draw me to them .. like some form of cuteness - like nice eyes, or a hawt smile or somthing y'know..
someone who's funni, sweetnessed and who's just willin to give me a hug/cuddle - whatever u wanna call it!
sweet guys rock!!
ohh - and u gotta talk to em, and they gotta be able to make me smile nd all that kinda crap y'know - it's what matters (2me)

oooo... aLso :edit: they gotta be clean and all - coz i dont really like dirty guys! lol, i dont think many girls do =P (then again, im probably wrong bout this too!)

 

[denise_]

welps..he has to have some kind of sense of humour.. as much as you love someone you can't last v long wif mr serious >.<

 

[Original_Angel]

welps..he has to have some kind of sense of humour.. as much as you love someone you can't last v long wif mr serious >.<

ohhh - sooooo true!!
but he cant overdo it either - else it just stuffs things up -_-

 

[Korn]

ohhh - sooooo true!!
but he cant overdo it either - else it just stuffs things up -_-

Where is the line? Obviously it varies from person to person, but how can a guy gauge it

 

[soha]

loyalty
honesty
trustworthy
kind
caring
compassionate
understanding
willing
loving
smart
strong
tidy
decent
religious
educated
so on and so forth..the list goes on..etc

 

[ur_inner_child]

i am all about words. if you can do any of these things: be witty, talkative, outgoing, eloquent, playfully insulting, write letters, poems, write songs, appreciate song lyrics, ANY of these things and truly share it with me, I am yours.

I was going to list quite a few attributes, but I couldn't be bothered. But for me, the biggest heart melter is a flair with words, in any aspect.

 

[yenta]

cute smile, nice eyes and hair (those are the physical attributes I'm attracted to at first), than after that, polite, friendly, funny, can hold a decent conversation with them (i.e. they have something intelligent to say) basically just someone I get on well with.

Um why did you create one for the guys to answer? 99% of guys answers will be: nice tits/ass/body etc.

 

[Original_Angel]

Where is the line? Obviously it varies from person to person, but how can a guy gauge it

you're totally right when you say it varies from person to person, so i guess i cant even speak for all when i say that too much is bad - but i dont know..
say they make a joke aye - it's funny, sure, but after a while it just gets bitter, and when you hint to 'em that it's an "off" joke - they really should get it and SHUTUP about it..
i dont know - like i cant think of anything in particular atm, but .. when it happens - that really sux!
a sense of humour is appreciated - but i stand by my comment when i said that too much can be a turn off and ruin a potential relationship..

 

[tempco]

um why did you create one for the guys to answer? 99% of guys answers will be: nice tits/ass/body etc.

not funny.

but true.

 

[mmm_sofay]

huge cocks.

i never date guys with small cocks.


... please note the sarcasm of this post by mmm_sofay

 

[OZGIRL86]

I don't expect someone to have all of these things, some would be nice though-

loving
trustworthy
caring
affectionate
funny
passionate
loyal
romantic
truthful
reliable
good personality
friendly
fun to be with
spontaneous
willing to try new things
ambitious

physical-
tidy appearance
nice smile, nice eyes
clean
smells nice and dosn't stink
taller then me

thats all I can think of right now

 

[Meads]

huge cocks.

i never date guys with small cocks.


... please note the sarcasm of this post by mmm_sofay

sarcasm noted

...please note the sarcasm of this post by Meads

 

[goan_crazy]

I don't expect someone to have all of these things, some would be nice though-

loving
trustworthy
caring
affectionate
funny
passionate
loyal
romantic
truthful
reliable
good personality
friendly
fun to be with
spontaneous
willing to try new things
ambitious

physical-
tidy appearance
nice smile, nice eyes
clean
smells nice and dosn't stink
taller then me

thats all I can think of right now

thats not asking for much is it

 

[Jago]

loyalty
honesty
trustworthy
kind
caring
compassionate
understanding
willing
loving
smart
strong
tidy
decent
religious
educated
so on and so forth..the list goes on..etc

edit: i.e. fruity/fruitcake.

 

[soha]

i.e. a fruitcake.

maybe in your eyes

 

[Jago]

shit. you were too quick for me

 

[OZGIRL86]

thats not asking for much is it

of course not

 

[_Amie_]

i am all about words. if you can do any of these things: be witty, talkative, outgoing, eloquent, playfully insulting, write letters, poems, write songs, appreciate song lyrics, ANY of these things and truly share it with me, I am yours.

I was going to list quite a few attributes, but I couldn't be bothered. But for me, the biggest heart melter is a flair with words, in any aspect.

So very true. Without words, what is there? Maybe a nice body, smile, whatever, but that will soon lose some appeal when you discover he can't even hold a conversation with you.

 

[my sharona]

likes sport
likes chicks
likes beer

has social skills
has similar interests (e.g. music, tv, etc)

has money