How often is too often to call a girl you just met? (1 Viewer)

[LazyBoy]

Like most guys the biggest bain of our existance, and the hardest part of dating is the period between first meeting the girl, and the first date. I met a girl last night, i gave her a call today and it was all good. Hour n half on the phone. My question is when should i call her next? how often should one call? etc. I know its different from girl to girl but what is the general opinion on how often a guy should call.

And jumb shut teh fuck up i dont want YOUR worthless opinion when it comes to question like these

 

[um..]

everybody knows that when x equals the original call and y equals the follow up call, y = 1/2 x

 

[LazyBoy]

so Y = 0.5 X 1 (the next day)
Y = 0.5
therefore i should call twice daily?

Personally i think your equation needs a little work.

 

[jumb]

And jumb shut teh fuck up i dont want YOUR worthless opinion when it comes to question like these

You've already made too many mistakes. But, I will respect your wishes and I'll leave it for someone else to point out.

 

[azzie]

call every 2/3 days. not more often. its REALLY annoying if you call every day.

 

[SmokedSalmon]

i'd say sunday or monday evening so you can leisurely chat about the weekend festivities and perhaps set up a first date for later on in the week.

 

[LazyBoy]

yeah i had no attention on calling everyday. Im sure this thread has been done, but meh. Search is for losers . ill prolly call her on monday while im on the train for something to do. lol

 

[thejosiekiller]

call her when u have something to actually say

 

[LazyBoy]

Im a talkative guy, i have alot to say. so that may not be the best idea

 

[thejosiekiller]

then limit to conversation she would like to her and not freak her out

i could call ppl up and tell them about how i sprained my foot last night, but i dont.

dw about it- keep her in suspense till u go out. that way u can have lots to talk about on the night

 

[LazyBoy]

lol im not worried about what to say on the phone or not. that i know how to do. im just curious as to how much is too much, or how much is not enough in regards to call frequency.

 

[thejosiekiller]

well i hate it when ppl call me or when i have to call them

i just dont like conversations on the phone

obviously there is no definitive answer here except which that u r comfortable with

 

[mmm_sofay]

if both you and her like talking on the fone, every 2nd to 3rd day.

 

[LazyBoy]

thanks for an honest and at least helpful response mmm sofay. rep for you. you rep whore you

 

[withoutaface]

Like most guys the biggest bain of our existance, and the hardest part of dating is the period between first meeting the girl, and the first date. I met a girl last night, i gave her a call today and it was all good. Hour n half on the phone. My question is when should i call her next? how often should one call? etc. I know its different from girl to girl but what is the general opinion on how often a guy should call.

And jumb shut teh fuck up i dont want YOUR worthless opinion when it comes to question like these

That all depends on how ugly you are.

 

[Collin]

That all depends on how ugly you are.

A plausible point there, actually.

 

[LazyBoy]

lol, well its safe to say if one was ugly the girl in question wouldnt have given her real number. Not talk on the phone to said person for an hour and half. So i dont think thats an issue. lol

 

[vietbong]

chatty

well if u guys talk alot on the fone n if she sounds interested for wat u hab to say i think u should call her but not everyday..u gotta hab breaks so u can hab more things to talk about

 

[Evansy]

well if u guys talk alot on the fone n if she sounds interested for wat u hab to say i think u should call her but not everyday..u gotta hab breaks so u can hab more things to talk about

well also another thing you could do is say ok, as a joke or something, say ok now u can call me, and say ' you wanna call me in a few days or soemthing' then u can see if she is interested in you. if not then give it a couple of days after she hasnt called and ring her and just say hey, blah blah blah

 

[HellVeN]

Yes, try to have 2 to 3 days break between the calls. Don't have long conversations on the phone, keep it short. Remember to ALWAYS end the call first, it'll keep her intrigued.

Rofl straight David Deangelo stuff there.