How to tell a friend her crush is in a long term relationship? (1 Viewer)

[lala2]

I just found out (via FB, yes shame on me I know) that the guy a friend's been crushing on has been in a long term relationship. How do I tell her this? And I would have just told her, except that:

a) It was me and another friend of her's that convinced her he liked her (she was reporting back to us on his behaviour and we deduced that he liked her). So if I tell her, I'll be going back on my word-ish?!
b) She doesn't want to know. I asked her if she honestly wanted me to add him on FB and find out (she doesn't have FB) and she said no. So I haven't yet. She told me to wait for him to add me. So yes, I haven't added him but I have found out.
c) But, he's not going to add me. And I know this for a fact because him and I had some issues a while back regarding a certain exec position we both wanted to have and I won that.

At first I thought she would let off, but it seems like she isn't going to anytime soon, and it's really bugging her and driving us nutters, to say the least. So, what should I do? And yes I know we sound like a bunch of naive high schoolers carrying on but the way they've been acting it's no wonder at all.

 

[Legham]

She had an epic crush on him and didn't know him well enough to know he was in a relationship? You trolling?

 

[BackCountrySnow]

next time you're at a comp with her be like 'lets go on ****'s FB'
she'll be like 'homg yes please'
then let her find out on her own and let her point it out to you.
She'll start crrying and you'll be there to support her.
After that she'll rely on you for support and you can use that to manipulate her for your own benefit.

 

[uhawww]

Just say you saw him walking around hand-in-hand with a girl.

 

[Legham]

sleep with the guys long term relationship girl.


edit: and post pics.

 

[scarybunny]

Man that girls does NOT know how to epically crush on someone.

Facebook stalking is the absolute least of it.

Learn2stalk already.

 

[risole91]

Send anonymous pictures to her of them making out, best to break the news softly like that.

 

[BackCountrySnow]

Send anonymous pictures to her of them making out, best to break the news softly like that.

hahahha. that's not softly dude...

 

[Marky24]

sleep with the guys long term relationship girl.


edit: and post pics.

genuis

 

[Evilo]

"hey <name>, i was on facebook yesterday and it says <name> is in a relationship. I was honestly suprised myself, so i felt i better tell you asap."

fuck im awesome.

 

[~shinigami~]

"hey <name>, i was on facebook yesterday and it says <name> is in a relationship. I was honestly suprised myself, so i felt i better tell you asap."

fuck im awesome.

Why would <name> not know about <name>'s own relationship status.

 

[risole91]

hahahha. that's not softly dude...

My break up techniques obviously differ from yours lol.

 

[the name i want]

"He is fucking some other chick" plain and simple and wont create a sad situation just blunt realisation

 

[Sammy-Blue]

Why would <name> not know about <name>'s own relationship status.

I hate the world just that little bit more thanks to this statement.

 

[Evilo]

Why would <name> not know about <name>'s own relationship status.

please tell me you are joking.

 

[unluckyinlove07]

just say 'hey (friend's name); your crush (and then insert their name) is in a long term relationship."

it's really quite simple and doesnt need to be overcomplicated