what causes break ups in a relationship? (1 Viewer)

[Jaxxnuts]

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[cosmo 2]

usually someone realising they can do better

 

[30june2016]

Common reasons for break ups:

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2. Discoveries can be sudden and unexpected, or they can emerge from a process of deliberate and careful planning evoked by curiosity, necessity or wonder.
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4. They can also be confronting and provocative.
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6. Discoveries and discovering can offer new understandings and renewed perceptions of ourselves and others.
7. An individual’s discoveries and their process of discovering can vary according to personal, cultural, historical and social contexts and values.
8. The impact of these discoveries can be far-reaching and transformative for the individual and for broader society.
9. Discoveries may be questioned or challenged when viewed from different perspectives and their worth may be reassessed over time.
10. The ramifications of particular discoveries may differ for individuals and their worlds.

 

[Jaxxnuts]

usually someone realising they can do better

I'd disagree

I think

1. Arguments/not getting along
2. Not being able to commit

These are the 2 main reasons but am open to any other reasons

 

[twistgrove]

i think the number 1 reason is infidelity, then constant arguing and lack of intimacy

 

[Nick Neils]

Try to talk openly. Never hide anything from your partner. Love your partner with a pure heart.

 

[merryliz]

Arguments, but main thing if you can still be together after it, some people have arguments every day and life 10 years happy life together

 

[jackyjack96]

Theres the obvious ones: cheating being unsupportive, not communicating properly, become interested in someone else...

But I think the BIGGEST one is not having the same life vision (especially when you're younger!). It's impossible to keep a relationship going if one of you has to compromise or worse SACRIFICE where you want your life to head.

If you want and value different things and have really different life goals your either 1. going to break up because it's "not going to work" or 2. you become resentful of partner "holding you back" from doing the things you plan/want to do and wind up hating them and breaking up (can happen vice versa).

 

[natnat1995]

You're just not that into them...or it's a toxic relationship...or you have different life goals ^^^

 

[savvy97]

Plenty of reasons, but Tinder definitely stops relationships from happening