Why do a lot of people LIE about NOT BEING A VIRGIN???!!!! (3 Viewers)

[chicky_pie]

There's so many people that I have known ever since I started Uni and want I find quite interesting is that people when being asked whether or not if they're still a virgin, they say no! But from their behaviour and interacting with people socially, I beg to differ. It's time to stop lying about it. I bet most of BOS here never got laid but go around acting like they had sex since they were 12! People used to worship virginity and all that, now people are lying their ass off acting like they're not a virgin where clearly you are.

STOP THAT!!

 

[katietheskatie]

people say i'm lying about being a virgin because i use super jumbo tampons
but i can't help it if i've got a heavy flow and a wideset vagina

 

[matthew91]

I don't get why people lie about it either. I guess it's because it's seen as socially acceptable to be having sex by the age of 15/16 now and if you haven't had sex by 16 your labeled some kind of wierdo it really is narrow minded and sad. I'm 17 and i'll admit i'm a virgin I don't see the big deal.

 

[Jeee]

Why are people even being asked such, unless it's a significant other, close friend, fam member etc? Why are people so inquisitive in regards to the sexual activity of others?

 

[saberbladexx]

Because not being a virgin is apparently 'hip and cool' with the youngsters these days lol.

I'm a virgin, and plan to stay that way till i get married.

 

[Hannargh]

So is it just as wrong for the people who aren't virgins to lie and say they are?

I don't want people to know (in RL) so I lie, it's not like they need to know anyway.

 

[matthew91]

So is it just as wrong for the people who aren't virgins to lie and say they are?

I don't want people to know (in RL) so I lie, it's not like they need to know anyway.

Yeah I've lied to certain people about it just to get them off my case. But some people i'll just tell them to fuck off cause it really is none on their business.

 

[chicky_pie]

Because not being a virgin is apparently 'hip and cool' with the youngsters these days lol.

I'm a virgin, and plan to stay that way till i get married.

Be proud!! don't let people who think oh but why you're not going to lose it... within few years they're likely to be HIV positive or carry some sort of herpes!

 

[chicky_pie]

So is it just as wrong for the people who aren't virgins to lie and say they are?

I don't want people to know (in RL) so I lie, it's not like they need to know anyway.

Apparently if you're Taylor Swift, it's not wrong

apart from being discussed online.. it also applies to real life, socially.

 

[chicky_pie]

Firstly, why are people even being asked such, unless it's a significant other, close friend, fam member etc? Why are people so inquisitive in regards to the sexual activity of others?

When you get to Uni, you will socialise with a lot of people (I'm nearing the end of my degree) that will throw you a lot of weird questions. This is just one of them

 

[Jeee]

I find it ironic that sex symbol Adriana Lima is supposedly a virgin.

 

[matthew91]

I find it ironic that sex symbol Adriana Lima is supposedly a virgin.

I will never believe that there is no way she is a virgin lol.

 

[Hannargh]

I find it ironic that sex symbol Adriana Lima is supposedly a virgin.

More likely that she was!

 

[Jeee]

I will never believe that there is no way she is a virgin lol.

That was a very confusing sentence.

She said so herself. But she could be lying. I think she's telling the truth.

I can't type properly in the dark. Off to sleeeeep.

Edit: Okay, she's not a virgin anymore. She saved it til marriage.
http://theblemish.com/2009/02/adriana-lima-no-longer-a-virgin/

 

[ay0_x]

I don't get why people lie about it either. I guess it's because it's seen as socially acceptable to be having sex by the age of 15/16 now and if you haven't had sex by 16 your labeled some kind of wierdo it really is narrow minded and sad. I'm 17 and i'll admit i'm a virgin I don't see the big deal.

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do you have some kind of multiple personality disorder? LOL @ that and the shit you were sprouting to me on MSN.

Most girls I know (because they're Arab) lie about being virgins. It's so stupid, really. Like the guy won't find out from your neighbour's friends' dad's plumber's dog that you rooted Bill, Moey and Huss.

Okay. Wog speak over.

I ask this question to guys I date because I can't be with someone who's a virgin. Really don't want to be some poor guy's first. Too much drama.

Other than that it's completely ridiculous to ask somebody.

 

[yuri_gagarin]

19 and a virgin and completely fine with it?

 

[Sprangler]

the blurst of times

 

[yuri_gagarin]

hahaha he is isnt he

 

[ay0_x]

Also.. social awkwardness is not a good measure of virginity.

Geekiest/most socially awkward guy I know lost his virginity before half the 'cool' guys I know.

Just a matter of finding someone equally socially awkward to screw.

 

[yuri_gagarin]

im awkward, you're awkward, lets get it on