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Is it better if the girl or guy asks the other out first? (1 Viewer)

Should the guy or girl ask the other out first?

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starlight190

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Is it better if the girl or guy asks the other out first? Like for a guy to take you seriously?:confused:
 

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traditionally guys would ask the girls out, but at a modern day and age i guess girls could ask guys out too. depends on the people though, i myself find it hard to ask someone out and if a girl asked me out i wouldn be offended or such.
 

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It really doesn't matter anymore.

It's stupid to think that if you liked someone you wouldn't ask them out just because of some old tradition. If you want to go out with someone and you believe they might reciprocate your feelings then go for it.
 

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I would prefer that I am the one to ask a girl out. It just feels awkward for me if a someone asks me out (especially if the person is not that I really like).
 

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If u like a guy u should go for it. Alot of the guys i talk to say they wouldn't mind if a girl asked them out. And...... what ever happened to equal rights?
 

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guys should ask first, but that doesn't mean girls can't.
that's just my opinion
 

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i think guys should ask first =/ if he likes you he'll ask you - so chillax. (ok not very easy to chillax when you have a massive crush on the guy - but then again, if hes not into you he wont ask you out. nor will he appreciate you asking him out and putting him in a tight spot)
 

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回覆: Is it better if the girl or guy asks the other out first?

guy or lose chance
ill never ask

i asked my cousin whether he asked his babester out or not and he just said "duh" but then again he's above average

LOL
 
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Re: 回覆: Is it better if the girl or guy asks the other out first?

It seems sorta weird me asking out a guy??
But in saying that I'm not going to hate a guy if I'm the one who has to ask.
 

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My friend was asked out by a girl. They've been going out for like 8 months.

It really doesn't matter.
 

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