aimhigh10
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So
Really really like this guy, and i find myself thinking about him everyday.
His parents know my parents though and they both are quite strict. He is also really more of a man who is focused on his mates, homework and sport, not really girls.
I want to tell him i like him, because sometimes i find it difficult to concentrate on work when i think about him... but im rather scared because i dont know if he really likes me... sometimes he acts like he does, and sometimes he doesnt, and just goes 'this is awkward' or tries to avoid me. If I do tell him what I feel, im afraid that it will really ruin our relationship, he'll just run in the opposite direction and probably never talk to me for a million years or so.
and that would be absolutely SHOCKING and UPSETTING
but i also want to know if there is something between us or not
but then I dont know if he likes someone else... because the times when i find him trying to avoid me (twice at two separate parties, once he has kindly - in a nice way - refused to come when i asked him to come to a party with me and sometimes he does try to avoid me on msn)- i dont know if i say things to him in a different way which are closer than our relationship really is
my birthdays coming up, and i was thinking to have a party and ask him to come... time?
no point saying get him pissed etc - hes a good little boy who doesnt drink, might as well mention that he's trying to follow the footsteps of his good friend who is now doing some super money earning course at usyd (who didnt drink, didnt get a gf until uni...)
sorry that was a bit of an essay- but any advice?
if u think that its really obvious and he doesnt actually like me at all- please say that too, i would rather know now than later
Really really like this guy, and i find myself thinking about him everyday.
His parents know my parents though and they both are quite strict. He is also really more of a man who is focused on his mates, homework and sport, not really girls.
I want to tell him i like him, because sometimes i find it difficult to concentrate on work when i think about him... but im rather scared because i dont know if he really likes me... sometimes he acts like he does, and sometimes he doesnt, and just goes 'this is awkward' or tries to avoid me. If I do tell him what I feel, im afraid that it will really ruin our relationship, he'll just run in the opposite direction and probably never talk to me for a million years or so.
and that would be absolutely SHOCKING and UPSETTING
but i also want to know if there is something between us or not
but then I dont know if he likes someone else... because the times when i find him trying to avoid me (twice at two separate parties, once he has kindly - in a nice way - refused to come when i asked him to come to a party with me and sometimes he does try to avoid me on msn)- i dont know if i say things to him in a different way which are closer than our relationship really is
my birthdays coming up, and i was thinking to have a party and ask him to come... time?
no point saying get him pissed etc - hes a good little boy who doesnt drink, might as well mention that he's trying to follow the footsteps of his good friend who is now doing some super money earning course at usyd (who didnt drink, didnt get a gf until uni...)
sorry that was a bit of an essay- but any advice?
if u think that its really obvious and he doesnt actually like me at all- please say that too, i would rather know now than later
