What're your standards/criteria? (1 Viewer)

[theism]

Here's my quite detailed list of requirements

• Does not smoke
• Doesn't do illegal drugs
• Isn't an alcoholic and doesn't binge drink weekly
• Has common sense (and therefore a brain)
• Isn't a tool/player/jerk
• Has some idea of what he wants for the future, especially career wise
• Loves satire/witty shows
• Watches the news and/or can engage in a discussion about current events
• Wants to have a family in the future
• Has a sense of humour and can make me laugh
• Honest and trustworthy
• Is not a religious fanatic (weekly church i can deal with), but preferably agnostic/aethiest
• Is open minded
• Easy to talk to
• Will do things that need to get done (laid back is fine, but too laid back is a no, no)
• At least decent in looks

Very good list.
well done.

 

[walkahz]

• Doesnt smoke
• is kind of smart (i.e. not a dumbass)
• Preferably enjoys motorsport but as long as they dont mind me racing i dont care
• preferably blonde or brunete but i dont care that much
• Has a pussy and tits
• is decent looking
• enjoys a drink occasionally

I am preety flexible and arnt too woried about most things but the above is the prefered option.

 

[RDX]

>6 in my rating out of 10.

 

[chelsea girl]

- dark hair
- skinny
- well-read
- similar taste in music (nothing too currently mainstream, must not mind PJ Harvey and David Bowie and must enjoy post-punk)
- likes Winter, hates Summer
- likes doing indoor things
- doesn't like or care about cars
- a bit of a nerd/awkward
- has a similar sense of humour and appreciates dark comedy
- open minded/non-judgemental
- intelligent (at least tertiary level educated, with some view to have a career that I don't hate)
- doesn't tell me what to do
- emotionally developed, enjoys discussing "deeper" topics
- quite likes an argument/debate
- isn't obsessed with trying to act and appear "mature", allows me to innocently indulge in immature and manic pastimes.
- can admit when they are wrong or make a mistake
- pulls me up when i am being crazy
- decently dressed, cares about appearance enough to be well-groomed
- immaculate personal hygiene
- must not be bothered by mess and chaos
- doesn't harass me about my smoking
- thinks i am beautiful
- loving
- faithful and committed
- supports my artistic talents and pursuits

 

[Silver Persian]

Gee I'm almost there Zoe. Except for the personal hygeine and not bothering you about smoking parts.

Does Stephen tick all of those boxes?

 

[chelsea girl]

Gee I'm almost there Zoe. Except for the personal hygeine and not bothering you about smoking parts.

Does Stephen tick all of those boxes?

oh, i can keep you on hold for when i am old and no longer smoke nor care about dirty people

and yeah, he pretty much does. our taste in music could be more similar, but it is not too opposed and i don't believe we particularly dislike each others' music or anything.

and, and i must add:

- is good with animals and children
- likes cats (MUST LIKE FRANKIE)

 

[Uncle]

pretty much want unrealistic expectations like many conceited individuals.

like she must be a dream girl that is short, cute, intelligent, big boobs, nice plump ass, blonde hair blue eyes, can clean and cook, etc.

yada yada yada....

So due to most of you going 'wtf' to my criteria,
I would be very interested in knowing what yours is.

everyone has standards.

now this is not a criteria to date,
but to marry.

think very carefully about this..
especially guys,
since most of you will go 'big boobs, bubble butt'.
those breasts will sag.
she'll age.

beauty is only skin deep. (we won't go down there )

HAHAHAHAHHAA.
me grandmas boobs sag lower than skipping rope.

 

[withoutaface]

o rly?

- understands satire

 

[katie tully]

Some of the responses in here made me

 

[Miz Janani]

- is visually appealing
- must be shorter than me by at least 2cm (at least 165cm)
- into the same music i am
- into the same movies i am
- loves indian and italian food
- non-smoker
- doesnt do drugs
- believes marriage is a life long thing
- can play the viola (not violin) and the harpsichord

Nawww, omie why are you so short?

 

[chelsea girl]

i don't think there is anything inherently wrong with having preferences and standards, so long as you're still somewhat open-minded and non judgemental.

but, for example, i could absolutely not ever ever ever be with a guy who likes and/or plays rugby league. i just couldn't. ever.

 

[Miz Janani]

• Nice personality
• Makes me laugh
• Trustworthy, loyal, loving, etc.
• Someone who isn't stupid
• Doesn't smoke, do illegal drugs or drink in excessive amounts.
• Needs to have an idea of what he wants to do in the future
• Must think marriage is a long life thing and wants a family, i.e. kids
• Easy to talk to
• Has to be taller than me (169cm)
• Has to be at least decent looking.
• Must not be a dickhead

 

[Silver Persian]

Nawww, omie why are you so short?

He seems shorter over the internet than he does in real life.

 

[anyscope]

- can play the viola (not violin) and the harpsichord

Lol, seriously?

 

[timw7845]

• Nice personality
• Makes me laugh
• Trustworthy, loyal, loving, etc.
• Someone who isn't stupid
• Doesn't smoke, do illegal drugs or drink in excessive amounts.
• Needs to have an idea of what he wants to do in the future
• Must think marriage is a long life thing and wants a family, i.e. kids
• Easy to talk to
• Has to be taller than me (169cm)
• Has to be at least decent looking.
• Must not be a dickhead

im 170cm will that do?

 

[Miz Janani]

im 170cm will that do?

Lol, sure hunni

 

[dux&src]

• Nice personality
• Makes me laugh
• Trustworthy, loyal, loving, etc.
• Someone who isn't stupid
• Doesn't smoke, do illegal drugs or drink in excessive amounts.
• Needs to have an idea of what he wants to do in the future
• Must think marriage is a long life thing and wants a family, i.e. kids
• Easy to talk to
• Has to be taller than me (169cm)
• Has to be at least decent looking.
• Must not be a dickhead

how about 189 and growing still? or if that won't do, i have a brother who is :jaw:

 

[Miz Janani]

how about 189 and growing still? or if that won't do, i have a brother who is :jaw:

Shit... thats pretty tall.. but at least im not the one bending over to get a kiss

 

[annabackwards]

Why should anybody who fits such a list fall for you when you're clearly not open minded yourself?

If you automatically disqualify somebody based on a small breach of one of a series of mandatory requirements you've created then you're bound to miss out on something great.

Which is why, in answer to this thread, I don't have one.

EDIT: Hey guys I found somebody who is perfect for me except he doesn't watch TV. What do I do?

It's an ideal list, i never said it'd be possible to ever find someone who satisfies my every desire but of course it'd be great if someone could XD

that sounds like a great guy, found him yet?
ive been looking, ur requirements is hard to find!
i guess we have common taste in guys. lol

Yeah, most girls that are my age are tools so nothing yet aha.
Some girls fit most of the criteria... but most of the time its too complicated for anything worthwhile to last *sighs

namu

Lol aha, nothing will happen until AFTER the hsc. Everyone knows that i get distracted enough already! But what about you?

 

[Born Dancer]

- must be Amish