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Do you girls do it?

Do you guys do it?

Do you guys/girls look badly upon girls who do do it?

TBH on the first date I rarely ever feel that kind of chemistry so I haven't done it. Not sure if I would/wouldn't if there was chemistry though.
 

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Can't say I've ever been on a date with someone I hadn't previously kissed :p

I think rules like that are arbitrary. If you feel like kissing, go for it. If you don't, don't. It's not like they're going to judge you, and if they do, they're not worth going out with in the first place.
 

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bitch if u dont put out on first date u arent worth a 2nd
 

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^^ agree with Spade.

I've usually hooked up with them before we go on a date, so yeah, i would expect them to put out, unless the date went really shit
 

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pretty sure you need to have sex right away to make sure you're not wasting your time with someone who is bad in bed.
 

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O_O

kissing is putting out?

And chelsea girl... :| do you abide by that rule?
 

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i dunno like it depends. i'd like to know the girl enough and earn one anothers trust, so like as in the 'first date' probably not unless it was like a 24 hour thing or if we were madly in love.

You don't wanna pour in the posion just to find out you both don't connect and break her heart the following week right?...
 
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i ddnt kiss until the third date xP

and it was the BEST xD

it was a dream come true... like a scene from a movie

romantic and unforgetable

and i get butterflies jsut thinking about it ;)
 

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you don't have to be going out to put out.

in answer to the question, i do whatever i feel like. there shouldn't be any rules regarding it.

the physical side's easy, it's the actual connection you should be worrying about.
 

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you don't have to be going out to put out.

in answer to the question, i do whatever i feel like. there shouldn't be any rules regarding it.

the physical side's easy, it's the actual connection you should be worrying about.
Already have the connection, it's just.. Idk. The guy that caused me to write this thread... Kept asking for a kiss on the first date, and in my overly rational mind I didn't understand why he wanted a kiss since all he does is kiss & he doesn't have sex and is a virgin.
 

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Already have the connection, it's just.. Idk. The guy that caused me to write this thread... Kept asking for a kiss on the first date, and in my overly rational mind I didn't understand why he wanted a kiss since all he does is kiss & he doesn't have sex and is a virgin.
well that changes things.

have you actually tried talking to him about this? i highly doubt that you'd find any decent answers in an online forum.
 

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well that changes things.

have you actually tried talking to him about this? i highly doubt that you'd find any decent answers in an online forum.
Rofl sif I'd ask him that, it's been one date. So far the only answer I'm thinking is he thinks a kiss means there's something going on/validates the connection and means I won't date other guys.
 

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