There is no commandment or law in the bible against homosexuality. The only mention in there is by another PERSON, and is just an account of what he thought.
Main point: there are way too many people taking the bible too seriously. However many people may argue, not every sentence is "god's truth". It has been written, edited, and changed by men.
Everything has been translated from other languages, the translators got to choose what they want in the bible, respective to thier beliefs.
What people experience and say it is with god, is experienced all around the world, with different religions: buddhism, zen, etc. It has nothing to do with the rules written in the bible, it's a sense of spirituality.
So yes, there should be absolutely no reason to hold against homosexuality because of something someone wrote in the bible.