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I have a feeling that many girls know who likes them, but pretends they don't (because they don't like the guy).

Are you usually right about who likes you?
 

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hahaha it seems they don't know the guy likes them when they like the guy

if they dont like the guy, they can generally tell.
 

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hahaha it seems they don't know the guy likes them when they like the guy

if they dont like the guy, they can generally tell.
that's because when you like someone, you often assume that person to be so perfect (idolise them etc) that you won't imagine them liking you back
 
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Sometimes. Some of them change their voice when they talk to you. It becomes way deeper than usual. And they give you the sexy eye... which isn't always a good thing.

But I find this is the case with guys in their late teens or early twenties.
 
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i can sometimes tell. and if someone says to me, 'hey blah blah likes you' i pretend to be shocked lol.
 

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i do lol its obvious from they way they act/treat you
 
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Not really, I can't, unless they make it really obvious. I'm not good at seeing these things.

But I quickly pick up if a person's a pedo/perve or not, if that counts.
 

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guys make it obvious
girls keep it hidden (very well, imo)
 
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most guys make it obvious, some of them are so fucking ambiguous about life you just assume that they would be like most dudes and just say it, therefore you assume they're not interested at all

i tend to be oblivious as all hell anyway
 

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Wow, it's interesting how you girls do stuff. I think us guys can learn a few things from you girls, but I guess when emotions are brought up, guys just can't hide it away.

But I know a few shy guys, and I wish I was like them...
It makes everything very mysterious about the guy, thus meaning girls need to dig him out more.
 
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Imo it depends on both the girl and the guy.

Some guys are very obvious about it. And some girls are clueless. However, these are few.

Often it depends on the girl's personality - if a girl is a reserved tomboy, guys are less likely to flirt with her. A girl who is confident and flirty is more likely to have guys exude signs of them liking her.

Or at least that's what I've observed.
 

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that's because when you like someone, you often assume that person to be so perfect (idolise them etc) that you won't imagine them liking you back
so true :/
i havnt seen this girl in ages but used to have a major crush on her. then saw her last weekend and ..she was alot diffrent looking than i remembered
 

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guys make it obvious
girls keep it hidden (very well, imo)

not really, girls are obvious even to the most blinded of all guys.

if anything they feel a million bucks when they know a guy is lookin at them, and they pretend they cant see and just walk away..lol
 

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Sometimes I'll get a vague suspicion that they might be interested but if it's not mutual I'll just ignore it. If I like them I'll flirt a bit to see if I can get them to be a bit less ambiguous about it.

Most of the time though I honestly would not know, I just don't pick up on it til someone tells me and then suddenly heaps of stuff they do/say makes sense. Idk
 

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Yea I can tell if a guy likes me. And I'll probably disappear to somewhere if I don't like him back and find him annoying...
 

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Most definitely I can tell who likes or dislikes me, even if it's over the net.
 

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