'I think we should ban marriages for heterosexuals because preventing these people from participating in marriage has nothing to do with preventing them to chose the heterosexual lifestyle if they wish.'
But marriage is an exclusively heterosexual affair. Marriage between two heterosexuals is always a good thing (provided its consensual etc ofc). In fact, marriage can lead people away from sin, heterosexuals having sex outside of marriage will no longer be doing so etc.
The difference is in regards to homosexuality, its the homosexual sex itself which is the sin.
The heterosexual family unit has been the basis for every society in human history (possibly with the exception of some rogue communist states).
Yes all people are equal, in terms of rights etc. But a group of people who choose to actively peruse a different lifestyle, can't honestly expect that society accept their choices as being acceptable, much less so if they were to demand that society change laws affecting everyone else, just because they chose a lifestyle thats different, but want to be treated as if they didn't.
As people we are all equal. However a homosexual relationship is built on nothing but lust, and cannot ever be equal to a committed heterosexual relationship.
Lol, it is ignorant to view homosexuality as a lifestyle in that sexuality has nothing to do with lifestyle. It is like refering to the heterosexual lifestyle, what is that exactly? It makes no sense.
Your overall lifestyle it could be said is defined by the various lifestyle choices you make. Smoking, eating lots of fast food, sleeping around, these are all different lifestyle choices. Homosexuality (and heterosexuality) are likewise choices people make.
Of course all gays and all straight people don't have the same lifestyle, everybody is unique, but who you sleep with is your choice.
Sexuality is a part of who you are as a person, but if you feel that people 'choose' to participate but probably shouldn't in this than you are callous.
I hate someone, really. Every night I dream about killing them. Does this make the actual killing of said person justified? No ofc not.
Now you may say well its not the same since homosexuality =/= murder, which ofc it doesn't. But the principle still stands, especially if you see homosexuality as a sin (just as murder).
Its like saying that heterosexuals should not choose to particpate in their lifestyle, which makes zero sense on two levels.
But this is where you're wrong again. A heterosexual relationship is always more wholesome than that of homosexual couples. It doesn't mean that heterosexual couples don't sin, because most do and regularly.
'People should not participate in how they naturally feel!'
People should act on the basis of moral judgements, not on what they feel they want, often driven by innate physical desires which should always be resisted should they tempt one into committing evil.
or 'People can choose to participate in how they naturally feel if they want to!'
Everything you do is a choice, stop trying to escape that. Who you or I sleep with is entirely up to us. We will always be responsible, for doing the right thing and for when we do wrong. If we feel drawn to do something right, then fine, ok w/e, but to be tempted into sin simply because you felt like it isn't an excuse.
You have to accept that yes, ofc you're free to do whatever you want, but ultimately your blood will be on your own hands.