Okay, despite the essays you consistently post, let's face it, this an accurate summary of your entire argument:
1. Marriage is union between man and woman, and gay marriage contradicts your definition.
2. Homosexuals can't make babies naturally, so they shouldn't get married.
3. Gay marriage will open up a loophole for polygamous relationships as both are a perversion of sex and familial relationships
Well I have raised CONSIDERABLY more than that in this debate.
And to do with 1. its not my personal definition. Whether I take the religious avenue and say its Gods, or whether I take the naturalist position, monagomous heterosexual unions, laying the foundation for families have always been the foundation for human society.
You haven't presented evidence as to why we should change it now.
All you have said is gays are equal, yes we know that, but that doesn't affact anything or lend support to your arugement.
And nor does saying well it doesn't affect you, because I have already established that it does. Societies moral stance on issues such as this is important for everyone, irrespective of social consequences, which I have already outlined to be all negative.
1. This is the exact point, we are arguing to change a narrow-minded definition. If a definition is faulty in a contemporary society they have every right to change it. One can use the example of classical kinematics, giving way for special relativity in physics. Times change, and so should social attitudes. Such medieval conservatism directed to oppress other human beings in the case of gay marriage is inappropriate in present day society.
See above.
Times change isn't an arguement. Do you think it would be acceptable for someone 150 years in the future to say, well past societies haven't let us, but beastiality should be allowed, you know times are changing and all?
Change ins't justification for itself.
2. They cant make babies naturally, so they aren't allowed to have a deeper relationship, desptie their love? Dude, love goes deeper than just reproduction, and ultimately marriage is mroe about love than mating to ensure natural growth of the species.
Please explain what changes to a coules love occur as a result of them getting married.
Its not like I love my GF a lot now, but its not like the day we get married or w/e that we're going to love each other so much more. The fact that you are married to someone is not what makes you love them. And marriages are not always conducted on the sole basis of love.
The fact that gay unions cannot create life is more than enough justification for them to be rendered not eligible for the title and benefits of
civil marriage.
3. Polygamous relationships often result in domestic abuse unlike gay marriage so the comparison is rather absurd. Also, gay people may be attracted sexually, but this is entirely natural, so what's your problem with it.
I have articles which show that not only are gays more promiscuous, that their relationships are shorter, that their are more likely to cheat, and that they are more liekly to suffer from domestic abuse from their significant other.
Wanna see them, or do you take my word?
And I have already addressed why homosexual sex, and two people of the same sex (in contrast to a heterosexual couple, preferably biological parents) raising a child is not natural at all.
They can as singles
The Word Sickens is the only word to describe what i feel about this too, if you live a gay lifestyle that is your buisness and you will be judged unless you repent. But to bring a innocent child into that is disgusting and should never ever be allowed.
Amen sister!
A child deserves a mother and a father. To suggest that two women can raise a child as well as a heterosexual couple is to be argueing that fathers are not required in a childs development, and vice versa for gay male "parents".
Why not? i was raised in a single parent family. i would think that having two fathers or mothers is better than having one.
Mate, I'm not saying you're a drop kick or anything
But like over 9000 studies have shown that single parent "families" are not the best way to go about raising a child, nor is by gay parents.
So two men who love their adopted child, is somehow sickening to you? Is it sickening to love one's children? Is it sickening to care for children?
That's a ratehr ridiculous argument, no offense.
Lol its not their child.
Its sickening to deliberately put a child in a position (which it has not control over) where it is automatically denied its right to a mother or father, and then be raised in the context of a unnatural situation where it will be taught a very warped perspective of sexual morality.