How long did you wait? (1 Viewer)

[Smokee]

I'm not sure if there is a thread already like this, couldn't be bothered looking through them all but I'm just curious...


If you've just began a relationship/fling with someone and your both previously sexually active, do you wait at all before sleeping with your new partner?

If so, how long?

 

[terminator69]

If you are looking for recommendations on the amount of time you should wait, you should start off by describing your socio-economic status.

 

[Smokee]

Ha I'm not looking for recommendations, I'm just curious.
I was talking to a couple of my friends about it and they each felt differently about it.

 

[postnatal]

sex first, cash later

 

[XxpunkcessxX]

a few months

 

[Tulipa]

Depends on how experienced you are, how old you are and how serious you are about the relationship.

I jumped into bed pretty quickly with a few relationships. Sometimes it worked, sometimes it didn't. These days I'd wait a few weeks at least, get to know them a bit first and then go for it if everything's working out.

 

[zombie omie jay]

depends if you want to fuck him now or later

what are you like 12

Edit: oh wait lol opinions
whenever you want
if you are >16 then you *should* have enough maturity to be able to know when it is the right time

 

[Dark_Light]

I usually try to lay on the first or second date. Relieves the sexual tension of the realtionship.

 

[Wait Disney]

Too long for spelunking.

Hands usually appear pretty early though.

 

[kfnmpah]

This is dumb. It's different for every situation.
I konw girls who freak out because they think they've slept with someone 'too soon' when it's all circumstantial and relationships should never be 'time-based' but 'feeling-based' if you get me.
I slept with my current boyfriend the first time I met him and we've been together for almost a year and have a very stable relationship.

 

[mes ami]

^that is true.

i fuck on the first date in bmws.

 

[lux-lisbon]

30mins at the most guys

any longer and you're frigid

 

[Yo1anda]

around 2 months

ie just long enough to build tension
and not so long that i start humping inanimate objects to relieve it

 

[SeCKSiiMiNh]

this couple i knew had sex first and then became a couple several months later

 

[Yo1anda]

this couple i know waited till they were married then he hit her heaps and now theyre divorced

this thread is pointless

 

[Tulipa]

this couple i knew had sex first and then became a couple several months later

My ex and I used to count our anniversary from the first time we slept together because it happened pretty much immediately. We were together for three and a half years so it worked.

Also, just do it when you feel ready. End thread.

 

[emiliieee]

try before you buy

 

[SeCKSiiMiNh]

My ex and I used to count our anniversary from the first time we slept together because it happened pretty much immediately. We were together for three and a half years so it worked.

Also, just do it when you feel ready. End thread.

ahah that couple nevered reached the first anniversary.

 

[myst1fy]

try before you buy

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