How to tell what he's really after ? (1 Viewer)

[Shadowdude]

all any guy wants is some hot snatch to bang ok

whether he treats you nicely before and after he gets that depends on whether he judges you good enough to bother with that stuff in order to get into your pants

Harsh, but fair.

Though I contend some people would put the female's emotional happiness above having the "hot snatch to bang".

 

[meilz92]

all any guy wants is some hot snatch to bang ok

whether he treats you nicely before and after he gets that depends on whether he judges you good enough to bother with that stuff in order to get into your pants

oh come on seriously, not all guys are like this right? 1 in every 1000 guys are a bit deeper than just wanting sex. if not then ill just go jump off a cliff now because my life's purpose would be defeated.

 

[SeCKSiiMiNh]

oh come on seriously, not all guys are like this right? 1 in every 1000 guys are a bit deeper than just wanting sex. if not then ill just go jump off a cliff now because my life's purpose would be defeated.

that is true. i just want someone to hug

 

[Shadowdude]

oh come on seriously, not all guys are like this right? 1 in every 1000 guys are a bit deeper than just wanting sex. if not then ill just go jump off a cliff now because my life's purpose would be defeated.

I have to concede that in my belief, a good proportion of men are like that. I'd say that, at the very extreme end - you can get as high as 1 in 3 or so would be a bit deeper than just wanting sex - dependent on the type of girl.

 

[meilz92]

i'd like to think my boyfriend doesnt just want sex, please dont take that away from me

~insecurities~

 

[Shadowdude]

Well, you could pretend to be drunk and promiscuous and see if he takes advantage of you. If so, snap out of it and say in a very loud voice: "AHA! SO THAT'S ALL YOU WANT ME FOR!" and then walk out on him. /plan

 

[meilz92]

he would be concerned for me if i was drunk

 

[Shadowdude]

Then he obviously doesn't want you for sex alone. You have yourself a keeper, from what you've given me.

 

[twistedrebel]

meliz he told me he wants sex from you only.

 

[meilz92]

i wouldn't be so sure. he has anger issues. he gets angry over spilt milk. drives me insane

 

[Shadowdude]

i wouldn't be so sure. he has anger issues. he gets angry over spilt milk. drives me insane

Well... refer him to Anger Management? Like suggest it and talk to him. Communication is key.

 

[meilz92]

Oh i have suggested this many times but he doesnt believe he has a problem. Its like he has pms 24/7. for instance, i just raised a very very small issue i had with him in a mild and calm manner, and now he is raging at me.

LML

 

[Shadowdude]

Yeah probably refer him to Anger Management... when he's calmer. Offer to go with him even.

 

[meilz92]

he laughs at the idea of it

 

[Shadowdude]

Tell him it's important to you and see what he does. If he rages, probably bail out... he may not want sex but he's not willing to change for your sake.

 

[Omie Jay]

he just needs some time to cool down (like a few mins to an hour or so depending on circumstances), listen to some nice music.

sometimes when he's feeling angry for some reason, he doesnt want to make him happy, he just wants to listen to angry stuff :[
but he's trying to change.

 

[meilz92]

what he really needs is to stop bottling up anger from all sources and unleashing it all on his girlfriend. especially when a lot of that anger is directed at parents, other factors etc.

 

[Shadowdude]

Buy him Bad Company 2 and tell him to take his anger out on the opposing team.

 

[Omie Jay]

buy him a 3DS or the new pokemon game =D

 

[meilz92]

he reminds me of bobby boucher from the waterboy tbh, since he has both anger issues AND is socially retarded. and loves water too