ok, i know this is gonna sound very weird, but i was fu..ed up in the head 6 months a go...please bare with me....here it goes:
last year, after i finished the HSC, i got a gob at a fancy place, there was a client ( i wish i never met him), he was allright looks wise, looked like hes in his late 20s ( little did i know! ) and super nice and awesoooome. He said ( and looked) like a very wealthy man whos well settled in his life.
well, he was courting me for about a month, he was SUPER nice and supportive, treated me like a princess, was really REALLY into me, and he showed it to everyone,
THEN........he asked me out, i wish i said no, but silly me said yes
before our first date, he kinda convinced me to leave my job ( he was very good with words), so i left, against my better judgment and with the disprove of my boss and all my friends at work i left with the excuse that am gonna start uni in 2 weeks.
our first date....here when it all started:
i waited for him in a restaurant, i was waiting and waiting, after half an hour he showed up, carrying a bottle which he said that was his medicine because he had a cough ( very weird! ) his cloths were awful and he looked like a homeless person ( mind u i was in my black dress and heels! )
sooooo, we had late lunch and we left, he drives a hummer, a really nice one, which he said was his, i got in the car and he was full showing off, didnt stop braging about the car, i wasnt really enjoying my time but i was being polite and smiling and saying nothing.
thennn....a police car was following us!! i was freaked out! he stopped, they asked him whos car is this, he said its his cousin's !! i was like WTF! LOL
they made us leave the car while they were searching the car for DRUGS!!!
mind you, am a VERY decent girl, i dont even drink, i have never been stopped by a police, I WAS FREAKED OUT!
after this horrible day, i went home with a big relief that am safe and sound, i switched off my phone for the day as i didnt want to talk to anyone.
THE NEXT DAY...i turned on my phone and i found over 20 TXT MSGS and maybe more than 10 voice msgs, well, there were ALL FROM HIM!
i spoke to him and stupid me, went out with him for another date to give it another shot, but this time i was observing every move he makes:
the super rich guy had a really shitty phone = he said his very expensive phone was being fixed by someone coz he dropped it
Mr. rich was ALWAYS out of credit = he said he applied for a golden number which has 7 zeros ( yeah rightttt)
the car isn't his, he drove a VAN! LOL
i asked him about his age a million time, he always changed the subject= he turned out to be 38 ( YAY! )
he pretended to OWN a bar = turned out that he was a builder there!! fixes doors and windows!
I found out all that while i was with him, i never said anything, i wanted to see what his limits were, i was waiting for the right time to say all that and i wanted to embarres him infront of everyone, this whole thing went on for 3 weeks
this guy was mentally ill, he actully bought VERY expensive cloths just to help him playing his role as a wealthy man! , he introduced me to people ( sick friends ) to confirm his lies, he's just soooo SICK i can't believe my luck!
The first day i started uni, i told the freak about everything, hang up on him and changed my number...i was very relieved that i got rid of him..
2 weeks pass by and a girl calls, she asked if she could speak to ( said my name ) and when she knew its me she gave him the phone, i was shocked! no one knows my new number except family, it was so weird!
he kept calling me endlessly..it was getting really creepy, then he msged me saying i should tune in the radio and listen to a certain radio station, i did, just to see what would he do, IT WAS HIM ON THE RADIO,,,TALKING ABOUT ME! he referred to me as " his girlfriend" and the "angel he found" and " will never let me go"!!!!
i was freaked out, but then i ignored him, he followed me to MY UNI, walking and looking for me!!! he knew my home address ( god knows from where!) and changed my number again and he got it AGAIN!
he adds me on facebook, waits for me in the train station, FOLLOWS ME to every freakin place!
i spoke to the police about him and turned out that he has a CRIMINAL RECORD!
but they cant do anything untill i have a prooof
am so freaked out, i deleted my facebook, parents are dropping me off to and from uni
I dont know what else to do...am still really scared, he even got my home phone number and made other people call and threaten me that i have to meet him or i will regret it, i spoke to him once and i asked him whats that he wanted from me, he said he wanted closure! WTF!
HELP
sorry for the super long post...
last year, after i finished the HSC, i got a gob at a fancy place, there was a client ( i wish i never met him), he was allright looks wise, looked like hes in his late 20s ( little did i know! ) and super nice and awesoooome. He said ( and looked) like a very wealthy man whos well settled in his life.
well, he was courting me for about a month, he was SUPER nice and supportive, treated me like a princess, was really REALLY into me, and he showed it to everyone,
THEN........he asked me out, i wish i said no, but silly me said yes
before our first date, he kinda convinced me to leave my job ( he was very good with words), so i left, against my better judgment and with the disprove of my boss and all my friends at work i left with the excuse that am gonna start uni in 2 weeks.
our first date....here when it all started:
i waited for him in a restaurant, i was waiting and waiting, after half an hour he showed up, carrying a bottle which he said that was his medicine because he had a cough ( very weird! ) his cloths were awful and he looked like a homeless person ( mind u i was in my black dress and heels! )
sooooo, we had late lunch and we left, he drives a hummer, a really nice one, which he said was his, i got in the car and he was full showing off, didnt stop braging about the car, i wasnt really enjoying my time but i was being polite and smiling and saying nothing.
thennn....a police car was following us!! i was freaked out! he stopped, they asked him whos car is this, he said its his cousin's !! i was like WTF! LOL
they made us leave the car while they were searching the car for DRUGS!!!
mind you, am a VERY decent girl, i dont even drink, i have never been stopped by a police, I WAS FREAKED OUT!
after this horrible day, i went home with a big relief that am safe and sound, i switched off my phone for the day as i didnt want to talk to anyone.
THE NEXT DAY...i turned on my phone and i found over 20 TXT MSGS and maybe more than 10 voice msgs, well, there were ALL FROM HIM!
i spoke to him and stupid me, went out with him for another date to give it another shot, but this time i was observing every move he makes:
the super rich guy had a really shitty phone = he said his very expensive phone was being fixed by someone coz he dropped it
Mr. rich was ALWAYS out of credit = he said he applied for a golden number which has 7 zeros ( yeah rightttt)
the car isn't his, he drove a VAN! LOL
i asked him about his age a million time, he always changed the subject= he turned out to be 38 ( YAY! )
he pretended to OWN a bar = turned out that he was a builder there!! fixes doors and windows!
I found out all that while i was with him, i never said anything, i wanted to see what his limits were, i was waiting for the right time to say all that and i wanted to embarres him infront of everyone, this whole thing went on for 3 weeks
this guy was mentally ill, he actully bought VERY expensive cloths just to help him playing his role as a wealthy man! , he introduced me to people ( sick friends ) to confirm his lies, he's just soooo SICK i can't believe my luck!
The first day i started uni, i told the freak about everything, hang up on him and changed my number...i was very relieved that i got rid of him..
2 weeks pass by and a girl calls, she asked if she could speak to ( said my name ) and when she knew its me she gave him the phone, i was shocked! no one knows my new number except family, it was so weird!
he kept calling me endlessly..it was getting really creepy, then he msged me saying i should tune in the radio and listen to a certain radio station, i did, just to see what would he do, IT WAS HIM ON THE RADIO,,,TALKING ABOUT ME! he referred to me as " his girlfriend" and the "angel he found" and " will never let me go"!!!!
i was freaked out, but then i ignored him, he followed me to MY UNI, walking and looking for me!!! he knew my home address ( god knows from where!) and changed my number again and he got it AGAIN!
he adds me on facebook, waits for me in the train station, FOLLOWS ME to every freakin place!
i spoke to the police about him and turned out that he has a CRIMINAL RECORD!
but they cant do anything untill i have a prooof
am so freaked out, i deleted my facebook, parents are dropping me off to and from uni
I dont know what else to do...am still really scared, he even got my home phone number and made other people call and threaten me that i have to meet him or i will regret it, i spoke to him once and i asked him whats that he wanted from me, he said he wanted closure! WTF!
HELP
sorry for the super long post...
