Staying a virgin until marriage (guys) (1 Viewer)

[Phoenix Fury]

yeah but the things is im just stating my opinions and you all keep bringing up shit like its a bad thing im not trying to make u all stay virgins so stop

I just think it's a rather strange position to take and wanna know why you've chosen it.

 

[freddie_mercury]

so what

yeah i think its a bad thing its a pretty archaic way of looking at things and it has no logical basis or benefit
you have nothing to gain from waiting until marriage

 

[Shadowdude]

yeah? well someone called me a cunt

Ignore them, talk to the others who are more civil.

 

[freddie_mercury]

they're not gonna change my mind

no one is trying to change your mind lol whats with these religious types always being scared they are being converted or something

we dont care what you do lol its just fun to discuss the mentality behind our different views

 

[thrillkiller]

no one is trying to change your mind lol whats with these religious types always being scared they are being converted or something

we dont care what you do lol its just fun to discuss the mentality behind our different views

fine all trolling aside i was kinda raised to wait for marriage i was raised religiously im not really that religious anymore though but i guess some stuff just sticks with you if youve been brought up with it

 

[meilz92]

whats wrong with waiting until you're mature and meet someone you really love and can see yourself spending the rest of your life with
its basically the same thing. whats the difference in your opinion?

what is your honest opinion of girls and guys who take this approach? I would like to know. Do you think they are sluts/vulgar/weird? Do you think they are normal and are you ok with it? Would you go out with someone who wasnt a virgin or write them off completely?

 

[meilz92]

fine all trolling aside i was kinda raised to wait for marriage i was raised religiously im not really that religious anymore though but i guess some stuff just sticks with you if youve been brought up with it

i was raised this way as well but I dont think its essential to wait until marriage (I used to think this when i was maybe 14-15 and hadnt yet developed my own seperate opinions to those of my parents)

 

[freddie_mercury]

what the heck come after 6

 

[meilz92]

what the heck come after 6

hahaha kills me everytime

 

[freddie_mercury]

if anyone wants me ill be in the bin

 

[thrillkiller]

i was raised this way as well but I dont think its essential to wait until marriage (I used to think this when i was maybe 14-15 and hadnt yet developed my own seperate opinions to those of my parents)

its not just religious though its also culture and traditions and that

for ur other questions i dont really care about what anyone else does with their sex life but yeah if a person would like sleep around with 100+ sexual partners then probably i would call that person a slut

 

[freddie_mercury]

i love skin
yes i knew

 

[freddie_mercury]

came here you nerdwad

 

[meilz92]

its not just religious though its also culture and traditions and that

for ur other questions i dont really care about what anyone else does with their sex life but yeah if a person would like sleep around with 100+ sexual partners then probably i would call that person a slut

well i think anyone would call that person a slut
what if it was like 2 or 3 people including the person they marry or whatever cmon
would you really write off someone like that?

 

[meilz92]

why not give the hand a wrist?

 

[thrillkiller]

well i think anyone would call that person a slut
what if it was like 2 or 3 people including the person they marry or whatever cmon
would you really write off someone like that?

idk man thats not black and white it all depends on the situation and stuff

 

[IamBread]

i dont understand y u all care

I would just like to know why.

 

[meilz92]

so if you met someone right, and lets say they previously had two long-term relationships, and thus two sexual partners
would you write that person off just because they arent a virgin or would you consider them for a relationship/marriage

 

[thrillkiller]

I would just like to know why.

Some people dont see it as something important but i do. its alot more than just sex its about self respect, self control,, commitment, purity, innocence and more. Maybe others don't share the same view because they werent brought up religiously or with those views and values but i was thats why

 

[IamBread]

Some people dont see it as something important but i do. its alot more than just sex its about self respect, self control,, commitment, purity, innocence and more. Maybe others don't share the same view because they werent brought up religiously or with those views and values but i was thats why

Ah ok. So is it wait until marriage? What if you are in a long term relationship and engaged?