My parents do not like me anymore because of my results (3 Viewers)
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parents say exaggerated and hurtful things when they're disappointed but it's usually just in the heat of the moment, I doubt your parents "don't like you anymore" over something trivial (in hindsight) such as atar, I'm certain they're still proud of you and will hopefully express this once the results hype has passed, the fact that you got a state rank is amazing in itself and I'm sure your other results are plenty great parents just set the bar too high sometimes smh. all the best for your future :")
Thank you you are the most reasonable person I have come across on this forum
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Another point to consider is the course you want to do in university; of course, parents will always want their children to achieve the best ATAR they can, even if it is well above the threshold required for a specific university course. But at the end of the day, getting a 99 ATAR for a course with an ATAR threshold of 80 won't be any different to getting an 85 ATAR.
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Its going to be ok, you smashed the hsc!!! you deserve it all including whats waiting for you on the other side I wish you all the best
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Were you attempting to be accepted to study medicine?
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It is spelled "were" you idiot
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Damn that’s a little harsh don’t you think lol
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I don’t know about you but the question he asked sounded pretty reasonable?
He is always bullying me on this forum
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Bruv I was joking but you were taking the piss with your constant 'it can't be overall' bs
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ahmed I am so sorry darling
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Seriously though, were you trying to get into med?
That sounds horrible, but like a previous comment has touched upon, atar is gonna become a distant memory before you know it. A state rank alone is something to be extremely proud of, and again congratulations for that man. I think it would be appropriate to just have an open discussion with your parents, and honestly let them have much more realistic expectations. out of 60,000 kids wanting an atar im sure about 1000 of them want a 99.95, wonder how many get it? 45. There's bound to be disappointment and them being sensitive to that is gonna be a good thing in the future and for you as well. As for the "waste of time and money", yeah definitely a heat of the moment thing. I personally would try not to take that to heart (heard kinda similar things from my parents too lol)
Edit: nvm, he's a troll, and we've been played
I feel no sympathy for you anymore ahmed, pray to the lords above that your parents remain eternally disappointed
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there is...he came first in the statethere isnt an ahmed in 2u state rankers that is in y12. sb accelerates 2u.
sydney boys accelerates 2u
yes im pretty sure thats where i saw his name look on HSC ninja