missed opportunities ?!?! (1 Viewer)

[Aeonium]

I have felt that before though and I second guessed myself so many times after we broke up like, should I start something up again now that we're a bit older and wiser? What if things go differently this time? But I think I was really missing the familiarity that came with being with that person and it would've been catastrophic if we got back together. Liking someone makes you so irrational

my green flag is i don't need to like someone to be delusional & irrational

 

[AsuTeksu]

I have felt that before though and I second guessed myself so many times after we broke up like, should I start something up again now that we're a bit older and wiser? What if things go differently this time? But I think I was really missing the familiarity that came with being with that person and it would've been catastrophic if we got back together. Liking someone makes you so irrational

biggest underrated red flag = keeping your ex around
^ those feelings will never go away i'm telling you-

 

[idkkdi]

I have felt that before though and I second guessed myself so many times after we broke up like, should I start something up again now that we're a bit older and wiser? What if things go differently this time? But I think I was really missing the familiarity that came with being with that person and it would've been catastrophic if we got back together. Liking someone makes you so irrational

can confirm that even as a maths goat i became more irrational than sqrt(2)

 

[AsuTeksu]

i think people crave relationships because sometimes, there's this sense of security and comfort with someone who seems to "complete" you
in all honesty, everyone is already "complete" and having a significant other is just having someone that matches that
sometimes though, people confuse romantic feelings with just wanting a genuine connection with someone that could just be platonic

 

[Average Boreduser]

can confirm that even as a maths goat i became more irrational than sqrt(2)

damn. Im more complex myself. on a good day around 3i, but on a normal day~ 2i

 

[totally_screwed]

biggest underrated red flag = keeping your ex around
^ those feelings will never go away i'm telling you-

yeah just block no contact does wonders for you idk how ppl do the
stay friends with ur ex thing

 

[AsuTeksu]

yeah just block no contact does wonders for you idk how ppl do the
stay friends with ur ex thing

from what i've seen, those who stay in contact with their ex end up being the biggest cheaters

 

[idkkdi]

yeah just block no contact does wonders for you idk how ppl do the
stay friends with ur ex thing

think its doable when u and ur ex both know and agree on a definite reason why you would never get back together

biggest underrated red flag = keeping your ex around
^ those feelings will never go away i'm telling you-

ye u dont rlly get over it u just move on

 

[xoNat]

i think people crave relationships because sometimes, there's this sense of security and comfort with someone who seems to "complete" you
in all honesty, everyone is already "complete" and having a significant other is just having someone that matches that
sometimes though, people confuse romantic feelings with just wanting a genuine connection with someone that could just be platonic

I swear some people think being in a relationship will magically make their problems go away

 

[totally_screwed]

think its doable when u and ur ex both know and agree on a definite reason why you would never get back together

ye u dont rlly get over it u just move on

my ex and I stopped talking for a long time but still followed each other on socials and in that time I realised yeah wow I don't wanna get back with them at all

but they hit me up randomly clearly wanting another shot at a relationship and I was like haha no and eventually blocked from everywhere without closure

so I guess sometimes a mutual agreement isn't possible

 

[AsuTeksu]

my ex and I stopped talking for a long time but still followed each other on socials and in that time I realised yeah wow I don't wanna get back with them at all

but they hit me up randomly clearly wanting another shot at a relationship and I was like haha no and eventually blocked from everywhere without closure

so I guess sometimes a mutual agreement isn't possible

i agree
sometimes if you leave that option available, at least one party will try to take a shot at the possibility
it just ends up going into an endless spiral that drains both people

 

[AsuTeksu]

also, while we're all here, do you consider this a red flag :
- keeping friends of the opposite gender

 

[xoNat]

also, while we're all here, do you consider this a red flag :
- keeping friends of the opposite gender

No lol

 

[idkkdi]

my ex and I stopped talking for a long time but still followed each other on socials and in that time I realised yeah wow I don't wanna get back with them at all

but they hit me up randomly clearly wanting another shot at a relationship and I was like haha no and eventually blocked from everywhere without closure

so I guess sometimes a mutual agreement isn't possible

ye most of the time its probably not possible

did ur ex check if the grass was greener on the other side and realise he fucked up lmfao

 

[liamkk112]

I swear some people think being in a relationship will magically make their problems go away

yup but its the opposite (pls set ur boundaries correctly and be selfish and put urself first)

 

[totally_screwed]

i agree
sometimes if you leave that option available, at least one party will try to take a shot at the possibility
it just ends up going into an endless spiral that drains both people

facts!!

 

[liamkk112]

yup but its the opposite (pls set ur boundaries correctly and be selfish and put urself first)

this goes for friends too

 

[Average Boreduser]

this is less prevalent in one gender schools right>?
(not gay ^ qn is ppl avoid relationships well in one gender schools bc they dont interact w the other gender as often^)

 

[liamkk112]

this is less prevalent in one gender schools right>?

depends on the person (it could be much worse) but prolly

 

[Average Boreduser]

depends on the person (it could be much worse) but prolly

oh ok