willjacque83
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Whether on the club scene or already involved in a simple yet sexually fulfilling fling, the Player will often encounter situations he’d be better off avoiding.
1- Meeting her girlfriends
At some point, she will want you to meet her friends. Now, when this happens while you’re first flirting at the club or bar, it’s usually a good idea to assent. Doing so shows her friends that you’re a decent, well-rounded guy who has only the best intentions, and their approval will further endear you to your selected target.
2- Weekend getaways
You obviously have no desire to turn your pleasant, no-strings-attached relationship into a giant commitment headache, so although a “relaxing weekend away” may sound awfully appealing on the surface, you have to realize what it entails. You have to understand that such an excursion is riddled with insinuations and implications on the part of the woman.
3- Ego confrontations
Men can be both competitive and territorial, especially when women are involved. This is why menacing looks are prevalent on the nightlife scene. These expressions are not-so-subtle statements designed to reinforce a man’s dominance over the pack. This is due to a combination of fear and/or jealousy and a firm belief that females, regardless of age, intelligence, personality, or level of sophistication, are always drawn toward males who proactively assert their will over other potential mates. It’s quite instinctive, really. But you’re beyond that. You’re no brawler, and with your reputation and impressive resume, you needn’t prove anything to anyone. Your actions really do speak for themselves, and if you acknowledge the challenge, that means you’re insecure, and the results will never be satisfying. Getting tossed out on your ear or being led out in handcuffs is hardly attractive.
4- Letting her take control
It’s not about “control” on the part of the Player, per se; it’s more about simply being involved in the intended direction of a relationship. The supposedly sensitive thing to do these days is to let the woman choose the destination (and, in turn, the atmosphere) of a first date or encounter. But while it’s a bad idea to eliminate all possible input from the girl, you should most certainly dictate the proceedings early on. Giving her the reins while letting things progress is almost always a mistake. One of the worst situations to be in is when the lady suddenly feels misled or betrayed simply because you decided to go with your own ideas after following hers from the start. The key is to send the appropriate message early on. It’s not about dominating; it’s about guiding and is a proactive approach to avoiding a lose-lose situation.
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How to get girls
1- Meeting her girlfriends
At some point, she will want you to meet her friends. Now, when this happens while you’re first flirting at the club or bar, it’s usually a good idea to assent. Doing so shows her friends that you’re a decent, well-rounded guy who has only the best intentions, and their approval will further endear you to your selected target.
2- Weekend getaways
You obviously have no desire to turn your pleasant, no-strings-attached relationship into a giant commitment headache, so although a “relaxing weekend away” may sound awfully appealing on the surface, you have to realize what it entails. You have to understand that such an excursion is riddled with insinuations and implications on the part of the woman.
3- Ego confrontations
Men can be both competitive and territorial, especially when women are involved. This is why menacing looks are prevalent on the nightlife scene. These expressions are not-so-subtle statements designed to reinforce a man’s dominance over the pack. This is due to a combination of fear and/or jealousy and a firm belief that females, regardless of age, intelligence, personality, or level of sophistication, are always drawn toward males who proactively assert their will over other potential mates. It’s quite instinctive, really. But you’re beyond that. You’re no brawler, and with your reputation and impressive resume, you needn’t prove anything to anyone. Your actions really do speak for themselves, and if you acknowledge the challenge, that means you’re insecure, and the results will never be satisfying. Getting tossed out on your ear or being led out in handcuffs is hardly attractive.
4- Letting her take control
It’s not about “control” on the part of the Player, per se; it’s more about simply being involved in the intended direction of a relationship. The supposedly sensitive thing to do these days is to let the woman choose the destination (and, in turn, the atmosphere) of a first date or encounter. But while it’s a bad idea to eliminate all possible input from the girl, you should most certainly dictate the proceedings early on. Giving her the reins while letting things progress is almost always a mistake. One of the worst situations to be in is when the lady suddenly feels misled or betrayed simply because you decided to go with your own ideas after following hers from the start. The key is to send the appropriate message early on. It’s not about dominating; it’s about guiding and is a proactive approach to avoiding a lose-lose situation.
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How to get girls
