its not absolute crap you baboon. you either
1) posit the absolutely self-sovereignty of women, and that is therefore their right to decide at all times because its their body undergoing change (unless she is mentally unfit of course), which is what you stated and is patently false
or
2) recognise that it is far more complicated than "
my body i do what i want", which you of course do because you believe in the right of a pain-feeling foetus, and the right of the public in legislating what a woman can and cannot do with her body. the corollary to this is that there may, in fact, be a legitimate role for men (not necessarily in obstructing a woman from getting an abortion, mind you)