My boyfriend has been accepted into ADFA this year as an army officer cadet. He'll be leaving on Thursday (tomorrow) 22nd and he's been accepted into Business.
To physically prepare he's been going to the gym every day and running in the afternoons. He's pretty fit.
To mentally prepare he's been hanging out with me a lot and his friends and gradually been saying his goodbyes. He hasnt really given it much thought but now he's starting to worry.
He's been packing today and is very nervous. The thing that scares him the most is being yelled at and possibly humilated. But that sort of thing is all part of the process.
Recently we watched a documentary on West Point (the military academy in the US) which he actually could have gotten into but chose not to and the first few weeks for the cadets was totally extreme. It was strange watching it because the whole point of that training, other than to train them, is to break them down, bring them out of their comfort zone, push them to the limit all so they can become army material.
No wonder there's such a high dropout.
I think the main reason why my boyfriend is scared is because he's moving out of home and it's all new to him.
Oh and i also know of another guy who has been accepted as an officer but doing a bachelor of science and he's preparing physically in the same way. He's super, super, super fit.