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[dafidav]

heres the story

i meet this girl through a friend of man when we went to the movies a 1 week back

this girl to me is so awesome, someone i can talk to and have same interest as me

the feeling i get whenever i see her is not like any other when i see other girls, i dont know how to describe it but its special

it just feels right to hang out with her

i see her on a daily basis as she is kinda of my gym buddy, we call each other sometimes to talk and stuff, we have had long conversation about our history, hobbies, like/dislike etc

now i cant stop thinking of her

i want to ask what should i do??i dont want to be just friends but being her friend is a great thing, we get a long together great

i dont know if i should ask her out now or wait till i know her better, but i also dont want to damage our friendship by asking her out and getting rejected

plz help

 

[MasterP]

Ask her out, if she says no then forget about her and find some other girl, if she says yes then you're good to go.

Simple.

 

[dafidav]

but if i ask her out and she says no, then i think our friendship will be over

i still want to be her friends

 

[Dejected]

she obvioulsy in to you a bit

if you think you can talk serious to her just ask her out an have GF BF relation ship thats the same as you are now


its the best kind i think

 

[KeypadSDM]

Make sure you don't talk too much about her problems. Eventually you'll be assigned to the friends ladder if you do. Right now you're probably on the romantic ladder, but not for long if you don't do something about it.

 

[OZGIRL86]

heres the story

i meet this girl through a friend of man when we went to the movies a 1 week back

this girl to me is so awesome, someone i can talk to and have same interest as me

the feeling i get whenever i see her is not like any other when i see other girls, i dont know how to describe it but its special

it just feels right to hang out with her

i see her on a daily basis as she is kinda of my gym buddy, we call each other sometimes to talk and stuff, we have had long conversation about our history, hobbies, like/dislike etc

now i cant stop thinking of her

i want to ask what should i do??i dont want to be just friends but being her friend is a great thing, we get a long together great

i dont know if i should ask her out now or wait till i know her better, but i also dont want to damage our friendship by asking her out and getting rejected

plz help

Go for it, ask her out.She can only say yes or no. if she says no, you can still be friends. it might be a bit awkward at first but things should go back to normal.

 

[MasterP]

That's pretty much common sense.

But seriously, if she does say no you wont lose her as a friend. If you do then she's not worth your time anyway.

Anyway, if she says no and you stick to her hoping you'll get a break someday, than you're wasting your time.

 

[Jago]

someone's whipped (you).

 

[Shuter]

Ask out the sooner the better.

 

[dafidav]

hmm ok

thanx for the advice

wat would be the best way to go about asking her out

stright up?/"hey what are you doing tomorow night, want to go to dinner and watch a movie?"

or should i be more subtle and gentle about it??

 

[dafidav]

someone's whipped (you).

yes you can say that

 

[MasterP]

"Hey [insert name here], I'm going to [insert place here] and you're coming with me."

Then, if she says no, you beat her upside the face and throw her into the tr-... *ahem*

... You politely withdraw.

 

[OZGIRL86]

hmm ok

thanx for the advice

wat would be the best way to go about asking her out

stright up?/"hey what are you doing tomorow night, want to go to dinner and watch a movie?"

or should i be more subtle and gentle about it??

staright up. Give her 2 or 3 days notice. If you ask her a day before she might already have plans.

 

[dafidav]

"Hey [insert name here], I'm going to [insert place here] and you're coming with me."

Then, if she says no, you beat her upside the face and throw her into the tr-... *ahem*

... You politely withdraw.

yea ok thanx for that

now on to the next thing

well i need help in this department as i feel she has more experience than me when it comes to dating people and i dont want to make a fool of myself but rather impress her

 

[dafidav]

should i still proceed with my plan if i think she is still interested in a friend of mine??

i dont really know if she is but they have been close friends for about 4years now, this is the same guy that i met her through

i dont want to get the reply"sorry (my name), i think you are a nice guy and all blah blah blah but i dont feel that way towards you, but i really like (enter friends name)"

 

[KeypadSDM]

Welcome to the land of chicks. You need to do ONE THING, one VERY IMPORTANT THING:

Make her feel something. Don't be just a friend, don't be a douchebag fawning over her, when you talk to her, make her FEEL SOMETHING.

I could go on, but there are much better websites out there willing to give this advice without me typing.

You don't need to be experienced in dating to make her feel something, and knowing you're a n00bie can only help your position if she's a nice person.

EDIT: If she's known him for 4 years, he's probably her bitch. So odds are you've got a good chance.

 

[dafidav]

i dont think he is her bitch

just close friends

cos he doesnt stand down from her and doesnt seem to be scared of her either

plz tell me wat u mean when u say make her feel something

wat the hell am i suppose to make her feel??

 

[KeypadSDM]

By her bitch, I mean he's whipped. He'll never get any off her ever, he's stuck on the friend's ladder.

And the feeling thing:

Start conversation somehow, ask her how her day was:

"Oh, I dunno, it was pretty good"
"What was so special about it?"
"Well I woke up and I read the mail and ... blah blah blah ..."
"Isn't it great when you wake up, and you go outside in the fresh morning air and get your mail, only to find that it's great news? It just makes the BEST start to your day, doesn't it?"

You know, emphasise how good the stuff she did was, and relate it to yourself as a similar scenario, then use emotive language to emphasise how good it can be.

Something like that.

 

[Agnes2810]

By her bitch, I mean he's whipped. He'll never get any off her ever, he's stuck on the friend's ladder.

And the feeling thing:

Start conversation somehow, ask her how her day was:

"Oh, I dunno, it was pretty good"
"What was so special about it?"
"Well I woke up and I read the mail and ... blah blah blah ..."
"Isn't it great when you wake up, and you go outside in the fresh morning air and get your mail, only to find that it's great news? It just makes the BEST start to your day, doesn't it?"

You know, emphasise how good the stuff she did was, and relate it to yourself as a similar scenario, then use emotive language to emphasise how good it can be.

Something like that.

pussy whipped

 

[nicko88]

just ask her out. if you're that into her, you should be willing to take any chances. plus, you'll probably regret it if you don't.