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[Agnes2810]

just ask her out. if you're that into her, you should be willing to take any chances. plus, you'll probably regret it if you don't.

but what if she says no, and then its a hell akward situation every time u see her

 

[KeypadSDM]

pussy whipped

Nah, he's NOT getting the pussy, hence just whipped.

 

[KeypadSDM]

but what if she says no, and then its a hell akward situation every time u see her

And? At least you'd know where you stand. Anyway it's not going to be necessarily awkward, you can make it NOT awkward again, then imporve your status on the friends ladder and try and make another jump in a few months or so. Make it seem like you're a much better catch than you really are during those months, then SHE'LL get regret, and you'll be in.

 

[Agnes2810]

And? At least you'd know where you stand. Anyway it's not going to be necessarily awkward, you can make it NOT awkward again, then imporve your status on the friends ladder and try and make another jump in a few months or so. Make it seem like you're a much better catch than you really are during those months, then SHE'LL get regret, and you'll be in.

ok, well i slept with a guy from work, and it was akward at first after wards coz it was jst a random thing, but i had 2 c him every day almost so it got better.

i only work in a cafe so very close proximity

 

[dafidav]

well lets clear one thing here, my friend is definitely not whipped or into this girl

i know they are just friend, but i do not know how she feels about him

for example, tonite we decided to go out, so i called a few ppl and called her to, i asked her to come out with us friends (of whom she knew) and she said if (enter friends name) come, then i'll come

its little things like this that bug me

so what do you think is going on, is she into my friend or is just really close to him??

 

[Agnes2810]

well lets clear one thing here, my friend is definitely not whipped or into this girl

i know they are just friend, but i do not know how she feels about him

for example, tonite we decided to go out, so i called a few ppl and called her to, i asked her to come out with us friends (of whom she knew) and she said if (enter friends name) come, then i'll come

its little things like this that bug me

so what do you think is going on, is she into my friend or is just really close to him??

shes into him

if she wont go out with your friends if so and so wasnt coming, that means shes coming out with you for one reason only, and thats to see your friend

if that makes sense

 

[OZGIRL86]

shes into him

if she wont go out with your friends if so and so wasnt coming, that means shes coming out with you for one reason only, and thats to see your friend

if that makes sense

yeh I agree, or maybe shes trying to make him jealous by asking about the other guy or to see his reaction?

 

[dafidav]

yea see that has been bugging me

but then again this morning she invited me to breakfast out of the blue

so i dont know

damn it

woman issue

damn it

 

[KeypadSDM]

Lol, you're so screwed. She's clearly one of the stupid-type women (90%), who don't have any real understanding of who they like, or who likes them. You should either back away now, or ask her out and hope for the best.

 

[dafidav]

well i wouldnt say she is one of those stupid-women

she has goals in life, knows wat she wants and wats she going to do in life

its not like shes one of those stupid bimbo who goes around trying to impress people and all that

she is confident by nature but is also really friendly and loyal to friends

gosh im sounding whipped now arent i

well i've been talking to her friends and my friends, both say that she isnt into the friend i mentioned b4, which is kinda a relief

but then again, from the last few days that i've seen her, i dont think she has given me any signs

all the stuff about looking at you a lot, (well she is confident and we do get a long quite well so i dont think she is "scared" to look at me), flicking her hair when talking to me(never done that), laughs at your jokes/comments (sometimes) and all the other stuff, it doesnt seem like im getting them or am i too stupid to see it??

 

[OZGIRL86]

well i wouldnt say she is one of those stupid-women

she has goals in life, knows wat she wants and wats she going to do in life

its not like shes one of those stupid bimbo who goes around trying to impress people and all that

she is confident by nature but is also really friendly and loyal to friends

gosh im sounding whipped now arent i

well i've been talking to her friends and my friends, both say that she isnt into the friend i mentioned b4, which is kinda a relief

but then again, from the last few days that i've seen her, i dont think she has given me any signs

all the stuff about looking at you a lot, (well she is confident and we do get a long quite well so i dont think she is "scared" to look at me), flicking her hair when talking to me(never done that), laughs at your jokes/comments (sometimes) and all the other stuff, it doesnt seem like im getting them or am i too stupid to see it??

If she is interested she might be waiting for you to make the first move?

 

[KeypadSDM]

Don't worry about interpreting past signals, try to look for new ones. See what she does next time you see her. Make some conversation with her, and make sure you steer the conversation away from anything bad. Seem like a happy person, genuinely happy.

 

[breaking]

get drunk and then ask her out. if she says no, you have an excuse for asking her.
believe me, i know

 

[pinkblinkbarbie]

Don't worry about interpreting past signals, try to look for new ones. See what she does next time you see her. Make some conversation with her, and make sure you steer the conversation away from anything bad. Seem like a happy person, genuinely happy.

your full of good ideas tonight
yeah just look what she does next time....i wouldnt use the same flirting signals or whatever with every guy or every time i saw a guy etc...they get boring or things change and the people change which makes a girl/guy need to find new techniques

 

[dafidav]

i also believe she is a happy person by nature, really outgoing

drunk isnt an option, as her parents would kill her

well im seeing her this afternoon for gym session and i will be paying more attention this time around

hehehe

 

[KeypadSDM]

your full of good ideas tonight
yeah just look what she does next time....i wouldnt use the same flirting signals or whatever with every guy or every time i saw a guy etc...they get boring or things change and the people change which makes a girl/guy need to find new techniques

Screw flirting technicques. Just talk to the woman, be confident, calm, and INTERESTING. Do not rant, and try to make her feel something. Don't use flirting techniques like a smile here, a wink there, i.e. make her feel confused about how you feel about her. She's confused you enough already, now you need to wield some of the power.

 

[pinkblinkbarbie]

oh misundertood. i meant she would have different techniques so he wouldnt pick them up cause they wouldnt be the same

 

[KeypadSDM]

oh misundertood. i meant she would have different techniques so he wouldnt pick them up cause they wouldnt be the same

Ahh, I see.

Well the point still remains, look for the basics. Giggles, stares, and touching. Look for revealing of body parts which she considers her best assets. I.e. Legs, neck etc.

These basics are usually followed, right?

 

[dafidav]

how about constantly rubbing her stomach and showing me that she has a small bulge in her stomach(i think she was trying to say im fat)


ahahhahaha

well i dont know about revealing body parts, cos we are at the gym and we do work out pretty hard

so yea

haha

 

[KeypadSDM]

Hmm, the gym. As long as she's not checking out other guys there, that's always a good sign.

If she's showing off her stomach and complaining, you're probably closer to a friend. (But then again, she's a woman. Who knows?)