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chantellejohn

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hey all,
i was just wondering what your opinion is on age differences in a relationship?
do you think it should be different for males/females?
what is the minimum/maximum age difference?
thanks 4 ur help!!
xx:cold:
 

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Well i said 2-5 years.

But if you were at High School, i wouldn't go much beyond 1 year.

But when you compare a 28 year old to a 23 year old it doesn't sound that bad.

So its a personal choice. Also i don't believe there should be double standards regarding men and women.
 

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meh who cares as long as both parties are happy.
 

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Yeah I think in your teen years, about 3 years max is a good difference.

But once you are about 20 or so the same 3 years should apply but only if they are three years younger..

as long as you dont bother the 16+ / 18+ sexual consent age, i dont see a problem..


older than 20 - who cares.
younger than 20, keep it fairly close, to aviod judgements, abuse, harassment, and possible lawsuits lol

i think that about sums it up..
 

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digitalhead said:
Yeah I think in your teen years, about 3 years max is a good difference.

But once you are about 20 or so the same 3 years should apply but only if they are three years younger..

as long as you dont bother the 16+ / 18+ sexual consent age, i dont see a problem..


older than 20 - who cares.
younger than 20, keep it fairly close, to aviod judgements, abuse, harassment, and possible lawsuits lol

i think that about sums it up..
LOL

YEP

persecution can be a bitch.
 

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michael1990 said:
Well i said 2-5 years.

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What about less then 2 years?
I think for teenagers no more then 2 years, but its weird.
14-16 still would seem weird.
 

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risole91 said:
What about less then 2 years?
I think for teenagers no more then 2 years, but its weird.
14-16 still would seem weird.
What i said was...

michael1990 said:
But if you were at High School, i wouldn't go much beyond 1 year.
so yes, that would mean, i find more than q year when you are High School to be weird. And sometimes disgusting.
 

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how about concentrating on ur studies and not getting into relationships and having sex with someone and getting pregnant and then fkking up ur life because of one gu who left u when u got pregnant.

on the other hand.
Love knows no bounds in age.
 

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i say it depends on how old each person is.

like 18 and 22 isn't that bad but 14 and 18 kinda is.

so yuh you can't just say 2 - 5 years because if its a 14 year old going out with a 19 its kinda a little weird. no offence to any one. but like a 20 year old with a 25 year old is okay. i guess.
 

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shinji said:
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how about concentrating on ur studies and not getting into relationships and having sex with someone and getting pregnant and then fkking up ur life because of one gu who left u when u got pregnant.

on the other hand.
Love knows no bounds in age.
you don't get out very much, do you?
 

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As long as your not 30 and 14 ( and ive seen it )

its ok..

And i think as long as you study during the week weekend parties are fine.
 

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When you hit your 20's, age difference becomes less and less important.
 

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yer8899 said:
a good age difference at high school is 1-2 yrs max. but after school, it doesnt really matter.
Yeah agree with the first part of your statement. but i believe more than 5 years is a little strange.
 

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