So basically there is this girl that I am really close with and I have begun to have feelings for her, but the only issue is that one of my close mates likes her (and has liked her for a while) and this is preventing me from making any moves etc. He told myself and another friend that he liked her a while ago but he hasn't really acted upon it. I know it's meant to be 'bros over hoes' - but it's really hard for me to just watch her talk to other guys and not be able to do anything in fear of hurting my friend. It's getting hard to stop thinking about her. What should I do? Is there a way I can work around this? 
