1Time4thePpl said:
I've thought of something great
From the 20 songs, i give her a sheet of lyrics each time I see her. Highlighting the things that apply to the way I feel about her. 2 songs each time.
... my god. the other people in this forum most probably didn't want to break your heart / didn't have the guts to tell you... but this stuff is just
nauseating. if she had any feelings for you in the first place, it would definitely be gone after this episode. Why on earth would you dump all your feelings/emotional baggage onto a girl you barely know and who already has a boyfriend? if i was the chick i would be fleeing too.
Sure... his bf might be "emotionally unstable" or have "suicidal tendencies" but at the end of the day, this chick is staying with him and not you. Could it possibly be the fact that what you're doing is putting her off despite her initial attraction? Could it possibly be the fact that she still prefers him over you despite his (heavy)flaws? Could it possibly be the fact that she wants a real man and not some sentimental new-age guy? Think about it.