Dating your bestfriend? (1 Viewer)

[Ben1220]

We're really good friends, haven't exactly known him for that long but he feels like a best mate already.

I'm scared shitless because it seems to be heading down that path and his friendship means so much, so I was a bit torn about the idea at first.

But I'd be an idiot not to date him, so I figure it's worth the risk cause he's fricking gorgeous!! =D




I like the way you think =)

define not long. 4 months? 2 months? even less?

 

[brendroid]

Just out of interest, why would you date someone you don't consider to be a close friend?

 

[Taketheatrain]

Cos you wanna sex them.

 

[brendroid]

Maybe most people do want to sex them, fair enough.

 

[emmcyclopedia]

define not long. 4 months? 2 months? even less?

And you care why? lol

But fyi, we've been mates for under 2 months.

Just out of interest, why would you date someone you don't consider to be a close friend?

Yeah good point. I suppose it's more when you have a fair few communal friends, and when you've already got a really good thing going as mates, that it becomes a massive step to change that.
It kind of puts a lot at stake.

 

[brendroid]

I suppose it does I was just asking, that's all. I can understand why it'd be a big step.

 

[x.christina]

seeing as my best friends one gay man, three giggling girls and three pussy loving guys who are either too old or immature, definitely not.

 

[katietheskatie]

ur assuming breakup is inevitable

you're, what .. 17? 18? the chances of actually staying with the person you're with forever, at our age, seems to be prettttttty fucking small, it's naive to think otherwise imo

 

[katietheskatie]

cool, come back to me in five years and tell me how many of them are still together

 

[breaking]

yeah for every couple i know who has been together since like 17/18 or whatever, i know like... a hundred who haven't lol. and the ones who break up after long term relationships generally go back to acting like they're 17/18 again because they've.... idk... in a way "missed out" on that fun few years of their lives i guess.
like yeah, if you're with someone you're heaps stoked with then chances are you're probably not going to be all "lol i don't think we'll be together in a few years time" but statistically, at that age, the chances of being with that person "forever" are fairly unlikely lol

 

[chelsea girl]

shouldn't your partner be your best friend by default anyway?

my boyfriend certainly is. I mean, I can't think of anyone else I consistently enjoy spending time with, always.

a really good partner should be both your best friend and your best lover

 

[brendroid]

That's kinda what I said

 

[assiduous]

shouldn't your partner be your best friend by default anyway?

my boyfriend certainly is. I mean, I can't think of anyone else I consistently enjoy spending time with, always.

a really good partner should be both your best friend and your best lover

so true.

 

[breaking]

shouldn't your partner be your best friend by default anyway?

my boyfriend certainly is. I mean, I can't think of anyone else I consistently enjoy spending time with, always.

a really good partner should be both your best friend and your best lover

change boyfriend to girlfriend and i couldn't have put it any better myself!
hasn't there already been a thread on this anyway lol

 

[HalcyonSky]

change boyfriend to girlfriend and i couldn't have put it any better myself!
hasn't there already been a thread on this anyway lol

man

i am happy you are still feeling like that

does it depress you this may eventually fade

 

[HalcyonSky]

also wtf why are there 20 people viewing this forum at this time

 

[Ritard_]

change boyfriend to girlfriend and i couldn't have put it any better myself!
hasn't there already been a thread on this anyway lol

minus the lover part

 

[breaking]

lolol gud 1 man

 

[breaking]

man

i am happy you are still feeling like that

does it depress you this may eventually fade

nope?