It was just the
bit that made me read it the way I did. What I'm saying is that there are situations where you end up talking to people, such as when forced to work with them, without any consideration whatsoever for how attractive they are. You get to know them, find out about their personality, and so on. Then, after a while you might all "hey, they're actually pretty cool, maybe I should make a move", meaning that physical attraction wasn't the primary factor in getting started.
And yeah, I'm aware that you weren't personally who said the liar thing, I was responding in general.
Edit: lol, and I missed the "most" completely, oops