ex trouble please help!! (1 Viewer)

[baby706]

hey all

a week ago, my ex and i broke up after goin out for almost 2 months. yeh not a very long time, but we have been friends for 3 yrs and became really close since the beginning of this yr. he thinks i cheated on him (which i didnt) and there were some issues with some girls he was friends with but now ive sorted that out and its all good. we've still been speaking every day and have seen each other twice both times we had sex. i dont want to be used and i can tell he isnt doin that and still has feelings for me...i just dont want this to develop in a casual sorta relationship because i want to be with him and no one else. any ideas what i can do or say about it?

 

[iamsickofyear12]

You cheated on him and you are insecure about his frienships with other girls. I understand why he only wants a casual relationship.

 

[santaslayer]

Lack of trust on both sides.

 

[Beckiki_S]

post-relationship sex is so ubiquitous these days.
have you TOLD him that you still want to be with him? What does he say?
Are you sleeping with him to make sure he still thinks about you all the time or because you just cant help it?

 

[aimstar555]

we've still been speaking every day and have seen each other twice both times we had sex. i dont want to be used and i can tell he isnt doin that and still has feelings for me...i

STOP TALKING TO HIM AND HAVING SEX....ur only trying to fill the hole inside you that'll last for a few days until you feel used....the only way it'll work is if you stop seeing/talking to each other for a while and make sure that this is want you want...trust me, i'm goin through it rite now