Sophie777 said:
Ah, thats a way to avoid the issue.
You said something about a girl kissing her mother goodnight being equated to any experience with two girls. It was quite obvious that even clarifying a point to one side of an argument is to be involved and I was questioning the use of attempting to twist someones words to something irrelevant i.e. that we kiss our mothers. As I don't think the person that made the comment was thinking you would jump on her every word. It seemed quite obvious to me that we were talking of girls of a similar age, non-related.
Anyway, thank-you for pointing out the fact that I was having a good time. I think that is largely the point of the forum.
If you're going to be like that about it...
As I've attempted to point out, twice, what I was saying was that, as far as I can see, the point that DopeyB was attempting to make, was that girls kissing girls (With kissing not being specified at that stage as being tongue down throat, on the mouth, which you added after my intial post), is not neccessarily a lesbian experience.
I'm sorry if I didn't spell it out for you, I would have hoped that the initial disclaimer stating (without saying that I disagreed with DopeyB) that I didn't agree completely with it, would have cleared the issue up enough for you. Obviously as it didn't, I attempted once more. And well, that pretty much brings us up to speed.
Seeing as that type of kissing has now been specified, yes, I agree with you, I'd say that any tongue down throat, girl on girl kissing, is a lesbian experience of some sort. When I made my initial post, that wasn't the form of kissing I was talking about, and seeing as no form had been specified, I thought it reasonable to speak in general terms.
Sophie777 said:
It was quite obvious that even clarifying a point to one side of an argument is to be involved and I was questioning the use of attempting to twist someones words to something irrelevant i.e. that we kiss our mothers.
I wouldn't call an attempt to say what I read someone's post as meaning, an attempt to twist it. I also wouldn't, at that stage, have called it irrelevant, seeing as your post read:
pinkblinkbarbie said:
ummm well isnt anything that is girl on girl a lesbian experience regardless of if it is a drunk or sober moment?"
and as I've said, at that stage no specific type of kissing was given. The way I see it, a girl is obviously a girl, and so is her mother. Kissing, regardless of the specifics of the kiss is, is obviously still kissing, and in regard to the above quote, I think it'd be obvious where I'm coming from.
Sophie777 said:
As I don't think the person that made the comment was thinking you would jump on her every word. It seemed quite obvious to me that we were talking of girls of a similar age, non-related.
As my quote of YOUR post suggested, I was in fact responding to what you had said in relation to DopeyB's post. So yes, again you are correct, I wasn't 'jumping on' Erin's every word.
pinkblinkbarbie said:
ummm well isnt anything that is girl on girl a lesbian experience regardless of if it is a drunk or sober moment?"
And once again, my apologies, that quote DOES make it very clear that we're talking about non-related, similar age.
I'm sorry if you've misinterpreted my point, it certainly wasn't an attack on Erin, nor an endorsement of DopeyB's ridiculing of what she'd said. What I was responding to, specifically, was you saying (well, I don't need to quote it again, you know what I'm talking about)
When I made my post voicing what I thought DopeyB probably meant, your response seemed rather sweeping to me and I responded to that, not entirely seriously, my own reply. I realise that within the context of this conversation that my interpretation of what you had said definitely isn't in line with what's actually being talked about, but as I read it was not apparent that your post was specifically referring to the tongue, non-related thing.
Edit: Quotes fixed, all credit to Sophie777 for noticing my mistake. The rest of the post probably makes no sense whatsoever now, but hey, I tried.
