Girlfriend chanced missed. (1 Viewer)

[James Bluntus]

I'm so disappointed.

There's this girl from my school and I started liking her (hope she isn't on here...) before the school holiday's. I wasn't 100% sure that I liked her so I didn't act on it.

We came back to school, and I finally decided it was real and I resolved to ask her out. On Tuesday, I see her and one of my mates holding hands. She has a boyfriend.

I don't know what to do. Some people know I like her. Should I tell her so she doesn't find out second hand or...

 

[Lolsmith]

Is your name actually Daniel Turner

if so amateur mistake lol

 

[michaeljennings]

Is your name actually Daniel Turner

if so amateur mistake lol

LOL yeah haha

Just be cool and dont let things get awkward when you hang out with her and your mate

 

[Lolsmith]

Well that depends

Do you care that she has a boyfriend? I have mates that don't care usually and will attempt to go after girls that are already taken

If you don't, then do whatever you want to try and get with her if you aren't a creeper/fag (no verification of this), etc.

If you do, then don't tell her and get over it

 

[James Bluntus]

I'm not a dickhead that takes other guys girls if thats what you mean. I'm honourable.

So yes, I do care that she has a boyfriend.

 

[James Bluntus]

Is your name actually Daniel Turner

if so amateur mistake lol

Um yeah... Changing that to my alias though

 

[kfnmpah]

I'm not a dickhead that takes other guys girls if thats what you mean. I'm honourable.

So yes, I do care that she has a boyfriend.

you know what they say about nice guys, son.

nah, but srs, they'll probably break up, which is where you come in and romance the pants of her (not literally...). Make sure you don't get stuck in da friend zone, though.

 

[Lolsmith]

lol okay

then don't tell anyone else about it and move on

 

[James Bluntus]

Guess the moral here is don't wait?

 

[Lolsmith]

do you have an adequate amount of shiny things

 

[James Bluntus]

http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=529380810

there's a lot of em

Not on FB I'm afraid

 

[James Bluntus]

Fuck... I'm in a situation at the moment where I have to wait for her reply in order to further the relationship

Have you asked her?

I didn't even get to asking her. I waited too long!

 

[michaeljennings]

Say they do break up, would it be awkward if you start dating your mates ex? Like are you really good friends with this guy?

 

[aphorae]

Say they do break up, would it be awkward if you start dating your mates ex? Like are you really good friends with this guy?

that's only awkward if it's a bad breakup. if his mate just wants to move on later its totally fine though. if he's heartbroken.... hmmmm

 

[James Bluntus]

Say they do break up, would it be awkward if you start dating your mates ex? Like are you really good friends with this guy?

Not REALLY good friends, but we're friends. We're not best friends or anything like that. We say hey to each other whenever we see each other.

I don't believe it would as I only see him in the Playground.

 

[michaeljennings]

Not REALLY good friends, but we're friends. We're not best friends or anything like that. We say hey to each other whenever we see each other.

I don't believe it would as I only see him in the Playground.

Yeahhh shouldnt be awkward at all then. Just wait for them to break up and in the meantime just hang out with other chicks, maybe youll be interested in one of them. When theyve broken up you can ask her out if youre still into her

 

[James Bluntus]

Yeah I asked her out for something casual. I asked her Wednesday this week. But she said she was busy with exams and also was going overseas after exams. She might be subtly declining, but then again its reasonable that people have no time during exam period, and her body language didn't seem to exactly blow me off either. She said we should go on Facebook to figure something out. But she doesn't go on Facebook a lot she said, and we're not that close (we're so distant that we wouldnt meet each other unless I arranged it by.. creepy methods or otherwise..).

Fuck!!!

No need to get all worked up and worried yet mate, I think that she will eventually give you an answer, unless she is low.

 

[James Bluntus]

Funny, do you think you can love 2 girls at the one time?

There's this other girl that I've been into for about 5 years.

 

[michaeljennings]

Funny, do you think you can love 2 girls at the one time?

There's this other girl that I've been into for about 5 years.

learn from this experience and ask out this other chick before its too late

 

[James Bluntus]

learn from this experience and ask out this other chick before its too late

That now seems so bleeding obvious now!

Only problem. I'm so nervous around her.