Girls and Guys as friends... (3 Viewers)

[Tulipa]

thats the point tho!

...i sure wish some of mine would.

you don't know any of them because they don't exist.

every relationship between guys and girls have sex as an undertone

 

[tomorrows_angel]

thats the point tho!



you don't know any of them because they don't exist.

every relationship between guys and girls have sex as an undertone

yep...
hmmm you might just have to learn the hard way... (to niteshade1312)

 

[tempco]

what if religion comes in? i know i'm not going to sex any of my girl friends, so i guess it makes life easier for me.

 

[Tulipa]

then physical attraction gets in the way...

 

[tomorrows_angel]

what if religion comes in? i know i'm not going to sex any of my girl friends, so i guess it makes life easier for me.

just because you're not going to doesn't mean you can't and don't think about it.

 

[jumb]

what if religion comes in? i know i'm not going to sex any of my girl friends, so i guess it makes life easier for me.

Religion is the same, but their main focus is to marry the girl so they can have sex. Also, I know christians that have sex. I'm very cynical about religion.

 

[tempco]

just because you're not going to doesn't mean you can't and don't think about it.

life easier, as in i wouldn't have to deal with 'oh i think she likes me... maybe i should make a move' kind of complications.

 

[tomorrows_angel]

life easier, as in i wouldn't have to deal with 'oh i think she likes me... maybe i should make a move' kind of complications.

when you say religion do you mean as in you're one religion and you'd never be with someone who wasn't the same, or do you mean as in you believe in no sex before marriage? cos that affects it a lot.

if it's the former, then you can still be attracted to people.
if it's the latter, that doesn't necessarily mean you don't want to get with them, it just means that you'll restrict thoughts of a sexual nature until after marriage, or not act on them. But there's the whole relationship leading up to marriage...

 

[tempco]

both, actually.

and marriage is the last thing on my mind right now.

 

[lourai*87]

thats the point tho!



you don't know any of them because they don't exist.

every relationship between guys and girls have sex as an undertone

My guy friends dont exist now?

I have very close friendships with many guys and sex has probably never been an issue. Then, there are other guys who have been close, ended up liking me, and probably thought about sex a fair bit. Then there are others the same without sex. Not every guy is sexually frustrated.

 

[niteshade1312]

My guy friends dont exist now?

I have very close friendships with many guys and sex has probably never been an issue. Then, there are other guys who have been close, ended up liking me, and probably thought about sex a fair bit. Then there are others the same without sex. Not every guy is sexually frustrated.

YESYESS that was what i was trying to say!

 

[tomorrows_angel]

both, actually.

and marriage is the last thing on my mind right now.

yeah... ok. but again that doesn't mean that you can't be attracted to your friends.

 

[tempco]

yeah... ok. but again that doesn't mean that you can't be attracted to your friends.

i know. i'm not gay, and unsw has many a hot chick. but i wouldn't behave in a manner that would lead to me being in someone's pants. yes, you flirt once in a while (most of the time i don't realise), but that's about as far as it goes.

 

[tomorrows_angel]

i know. i'm not gay, and unsw has many a hot chick. but i wouldn't behave in a manner that would lead to me being in someone's pants. yes, you flirt once in a while (most of the time i don't realise), but that's about as far as it goes.

so you have no really close friends that are girls? and in no way or manner did i make reference to homosexuality.

 

[tempco]

so you have no really close friends that are girls? and in no way or manner did i make reference to homosexuality.

nope.

and i just added gayness to avoid any misconceptions.

 

[tomorrows_angel]

nope.

and i just added gayness to avoid any misconceptions.

ah ok, it's more with close friends that you have problems. Normal friends you can still like and fall for, but when you're closer it's a lot easier to push the boundaries of what you think about a person.

 

[niteshade1312]

Also, sometimes the closer you get, the harder it is to work out if you like them, or just like them for who they are.

 

[tempco]

ah ok, it's more with close friends that you have problems. Normal friends you can still like and fall for, but when you're closer it's a lot easier to push the boundaries of what you think about a person.

true. that's why i tend to avoid being close to any of the girl friends i have.

the ladder theory is hilarious though.

 

[Tulipa]

true. that's why i tend to avoid being close to any of the girl friends i have.

the ladder theory is hilarious though.

so true though

and look every guy at one point looks at one of his girl friends and wonders what it'd be like to had sex with them. they may shudder or they may really like it.

i stand by what i said before. sex is the undertone of every relationship between a guy or girl. (no matter how small)

 

[jumb]

so true though

and look every guy at one point looks at one of his girl friends and wonders what it'd be like to had sex with them. they may shudder or they may really like it.

i stand by what i said before. sex is the undertone of every relationship between a guy or girl. (no matter how small)

That's deep, wise and very mature of you.