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How do you determine whether a girl has affections for you? (1 Viewer)

Menomaths

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I can't imagine how much derailing will occur when you guys learn a lot more maths :haha:
 

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Wow...never expected to find so many maths puns on this page, very enlightening to read, wish I can make such awesome puns...to answer OPs question, sometimes its best to just ask the girl directly, just inferring from eye contact or body language always at risk of mid interpretation and awkward moment of misunderstanding. Some people actually avoid making eye contact with the person they have affection on if they happen to have a shy personality, so there really is no universally a binding rule:)
 

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I think asking should be a last resort, only if you have no way to comfirm or establish a relationship. If you do ask and they say yes, it would just be akward afterwards. However, I feel somewhat guilty trying to establish a relationshion through exploitation of their affection.
 

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>Assume every girl has affections for you in every situation
>Don't care whether she really has affections for you or not
>Just enjoy yourself
>Win at life every time

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If you can do this without coming across as pretentious, arrogant and egotistical it's a partial win.
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>Assume every girl has affections for you in every situation
>Don't care whether she really has affections for you or not
>Just enjoy yourself
>Win at life every time
If you can do this without coming across as pretentious, arrogant and egotistical it's a partial win. It sure won't work if you want some sort of strong relationship built on mutual feelings.
 

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Not generalizing but based on experience. Btw I'm a girl so yea

The shy type (this is shamefully me):
- Will quickly look away when your eyes meet
- Avoids you
- Says short and concise things when talking to you
- Can't look at you properly/doesn't look at your eyes when talking to you

Confident type:
-Will use every opportunity to talk to you
- Touchy
- Will always say hello first
- Makes unnecessarily long eye contact

General things:
-Apparently pupils dialate
-Voice goes higher
- Will act differently around you

Not sure if this helps but yea :)
There's also girls who are like half interested in guys that won't bother until the guy makes a move first
 
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Not generalizing but based on experience. Btw I'm a girl so yea

The shy type (this is shamefully me):
- Will quickly look away when your eyes meet
- Avoids you
- Says short and concise things when talking to you
- Can't look at you properly/doesn't look at your eyes when talking to you
I don't understand, how do these show signs of attraction??? What do shy girls do if they are not attracted then? The opposite of everything you've mentioned?

Pls educate me on this matter
 

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