ark said:
hi,
sorry im a n00b to theses forums, but i saw this girl last year when i was in yr11 and i just know that I must ask her out. I like only see her once a term and this coming saturday the 27th of august is one of those days i see her. But its our HSC speaking exam day for a language. all those other times i saw her i WAS going to, but something always come up and I would say to myself its okay ill juss ask her next time. So i dont want to ask her before the exams coz it might put her off and this is my last chance ever to ask her. So anyone know a good method of asking her without spoiling the moment, HSC exam... i have no idea what to say.
thanks any help will do.
ohhh ffs, look I get rejected when I go to pubs, but I still manage to hook up because I talk to many women and I don’t care how many times I get rejected.
In this situation you have NOTHING TO LOSE, once you established eye contact don’t break it and approach her. If she is with her girl friends that is a big plus because it takes pure guts to come up to the group and in front of them ask her out, and all her girlfriends will be wet because of your confidence. Ill tell you nothing turns a chick on like confidence. Where you get your confidence is your problem.
Q How many times have you seen an unattractive guy surrounded by chicks?? A confidence.
With girls asking them out you should waste no time. If you get rejected say "your loss"
, but I highly doubt she will reject you in front of her friends because it will make her look bad. If you will get rejected move on and forget about her!! And I guaranty that you will be with your next girl of dreams if you approach lots of girls.
There was this chick I was chasing, but later noticing that she was avoiding me I took the hint. And moved on.
Ok no confidence. Try to make it so that every one knows in your school that you like her. The word will spread and every one will talk about it. This is gold here. She will NOT reject you because it will make her look bad in front of the school peers. In these situations just come up to her and stark talking about... umm cats, dogs, random small talk here. The more you come up the better, but don’t waste time, while your are the celebrity time is running out she will get bored of you unless you make your move.
Nothing to lose, what are you waiting for.
If you are in fear of rejection, YOU ARE A PUSSY. Who cares??