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Re: I like a girl and I wawnt to tell her I like her in person. IVE NEVER EVER DONE T
but it isn't the end of the world. not everybody is going to like you, and i don't mean that in a negative way. it's just how it is. guys get rejected, and girls get rejected too. everybody experiences it at one stage or another. but i understand where you're coming from: you've asked someone out and she flat out, metaphorically slapped you in the face - not the ideal situation for anybody's first time. maybe the next time you ask another girl out the result will be the same too. or maybe it won't. sometimes you win, and sometimes you don't.
think about it this way: you're not attracted to every single girl on the planet are you? if a girl that you're not attracted to confesses her feelings to you, you would 'reject' her as well, wouldn't you? but that's not her fault at all, and it's not yours either. is she a failure? no, you're simply just not that into her. there's nothing wrong with either of you, and things just don't always work out as you would like.
what i'm trying to say is, take the rejection with a grain of salt. when you're ready, forget her and move on - and as cliche as it sounds, there are plenty of fish in the sea. maybe you don't believe me now, but once you start to meet more and more people, i think you'll start to see the validity in that statement.
you should probably do things that distract yourself from negative thoughts as well to dig yourself out of your sorrow haha - such as, meeting new people (!), hanging out with friends or engaging with hobbies.
anywho, goodluck !
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but it isn't the end of the world. not everybody is going to like you, and i don't mean that in a negative way. it's just how it is. guys get rejected, and girls get rejected too. everybody experiences it at one stage or another. but i understand where you're coming from: you've asked someone out and she flat out, metaphorically slapped you in the face - not the ideal situation for anybody's first time. maybe the next time you ask another girl out the result will be the same too. or maybe it won't. sometimes you win, and sometimes you don't.
think about it this way: you're not attracted to every single girl on the planet are you? if a girl that you're not attracted to confesses her feelings to you, you would 'reject' her as well, wouldn't you? but that's not her fault at all, and it's not yours either. is she a failure? no, you're simply just not that into her. there's nothing wrong with either of you, and things just don't always work out as you would like.
what i'm trying to say is, take the rejection with a grain of salt. when you're ready, forget her and move on - and as cliche as it sounds, there are plenty of fish in the sea. maybe you don't believe me now, but once you start to meet more and more people, i think you'll start to see the validity in that statement.
you should probably do things that distract yourself from negative thoughts as well to dig yourself out of your sorrow haha - such as, meeting new people (!), hanging out with friends or engaging with hobbies.
anywho, goodluck !
