IF i guy is VERY keen/interested... (1 Viewer)

[MzbLaZeIT]

say you meet someone at a party/club
you exchange numbers whatever.. talk for a few days over the fone, organise to meet up and catch up.. but you both are too busy at the time, things goingon.. bla bla

IF the guy is VERY keen/interested... WILL HE KEEP CALLING ?
or will he "leave it up to you to make the next initial contact?" but still have interest?

does anyone get me?
lol

 

[withoutaface]

It depends, he doesn't want to come across as desperate and that's the image he'd be projecting if he asks you out somewhere every three days, so just dump your personal insecurities and call him if you want to go out.

 

[MzbLaZeIT]

omg u answered it for me. PERSONAL INSECURITIES lol
i have those! thats what it must be!

i mean, not sounding so up myself (hahahahaha)
i meet guys, theyre great i get along with them, theyre funny, hot, everything.. omg i can see myself going out with them!
we talk for a bit over the fone
but when it comes to actually making effort.. to meet up with them, go on a date... (im talking for potential relationship)
i kind of put of doing this!
I DONT KNOW WHY?!?

its not like im scared.. i feeel like.. if i have to pick from one, then bye bye goes to meeting so many beautiful people lol

i think i like having toooo much fun with my friends, or jst 'seeing' people and hooking up (fark that sounds bad.. lol)
but then times come and its like.. aww i wish i had a boyfriend

i cant keep guys waiting lol.. ""yeah ill call u when im ready""

ok i jst read over what i wrote.. im totally confusing everyone! and my situation isnt even confusing.. ive just carked it! lol

 

[MzbLaZeIT]

im not asian, but i still dont get it?

lol


follow the yellow brick roaddddd homieeee

 

[tachiapple]

u sound like u have commitment problems

 

[SweetSeasons]

you know.. you can go on a date with someone, without it meaning ur gonna go out with them.. if they ask you where they stand just say something like, you're getting to know a few different people at the moment, that ur not ready to commit just yet.

 

[MzbLaZeIT]

eeenie meeenieee miniiiii moe.. i wish it could be that easy ay! lol

sweetseasons, your right! im gonna test this one out.
i just need some1 to state the obvious to me i think.. it all makes sense now

thanks for your help guys.

going out with some1 is way different now that im 19, as opposed to doing the meenie moe thing when i was younger..
i really gotta be 100% about it now! grr

 

[minushuman]

u sound like u have commitment problems

Drop the commitment and you're on to a winner!

 

[braad]

say you meet someone at a party/club
you exchange numbers whatever.. talk for a few days over the fone, organise to meet up and catch up.. but you both are too busy at the time, things goingon.. bla bla

IF the guy is VERY keen/interested... WILL HE KEEP CALLING ?
or will he "leave it up to you to make the next initial contact?" but still have interest?

does anyone get me?
lol

:/

why didnt you just word the question in first person?

it's alot more entertaining

 

[niteshade1312]

Is it easier for guys if girls do the "wooing"? just out of curiosity

 

[mr_brightside]

Is it easier for guys if girls do the "wooing"? just out of curiosity

Of course it is.

Keyword: Do.
This means guys do nothing

 

[marchetta]

If a guy really likes a you, he will make the time and effort to call you. If he doesn't, and makes excuses that he's "busy", he probably isn't all that into you, so it's probably best to forget him. But hey - if you wanna call him, you can, but you don't want to run the risk being rejected again.

 

[Spunge12]

It all depends on a pivitol question which even worried Clark Kent and Lois Lane.

Do you put out?

 

[Smurg]

eeenie meeenieee miniiiii moe.. i wish it could be that easy ay! lol

sweetseasons, your right! im gonna test this one out.
i just need some1 to state the obvious to me i think.. it all makes sense now

thanks for your help guys.

going out with some1 is way different now that im 19, as opposed to doing the meenie moe thing when i was younger..
i really gotta be 100% about it now! grr

Summing it all up. You should definitely call me now. I'm trying not to seem too eager atm, so now it's up to you to make the next step.

<phone number deleted>

 

[Koray]

Depends the guy that calls you back might be needy and desperate or really like you.

The one that doesn't must of thought you were just a play around or just wants sex or he has other options.

 

[niteshade1312]

What about obvious eye contact on behalf of the guy? And an offering of 'coffee'? I never really get what that means..

 

[Spunge12]

What about obvious eye contact on behalf of the guy? And an offering of 'coffee'? I never really get what that means..

Well, one thing is for sure, he doesn't want to fuck your mouth.

 

[niteshade1312]

Well, one thing is for sure, he doesn't want to fuck your mouth.

Well thank you for that... :mad1:

 

[Spunge12]

Well thank you for that... :mad1:

If i help, even in the smallest amount, my service has been fullfilled.

 

[Azagolas]

Point that: things should be taken as it goes, take it easy, relax, and most importantly, be yourself.

Otherwise it just defeats the purpose of it.