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rebornrlaguddn

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hi
i nearly hav been relationship wit my gf for 1 year now
and i need some advice because i think i hav some issues concerning wit my gf talking cheerfully wit other guys
wenever i see that view, i always get jealous for no reason
is that the normal thing for the guys to hav tat?
and how can i reduce those kind of feeling?
due to that, i sometimes dun realli wanna talk to my gf for a day...
 

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You're so jealous because you lack confidence. You think that with every guy she talks to, there is a possibility that she might be more attracted to the guy than you. If you're only jealous when she talks to SOME guy (or a selected few) then maybe it's not the confidence issue. But if you get jealous when she talks to almost every guy then..good luck.
 

rebornrlaguddn

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latvia said:
You're so jealous because you lack confidence. You think that with every guy she talks to, there is a possibility that she might be more attracted to the guy than you. If you're only jealous when she talks to SOME guy (or a selected few) then maybe it's not the confidence issue. But if you get jealous when she talks to almost every guy then..good luck.
i think i'm getting only jealous wen she's talking to some guys, but not all guys
is this also not confidence issue? and how can i develop my confidence toward these kind of issue?
 

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I think it's kinda normal for most guys at first.
It's a mix of jealously, overprotectiveness and underconfidence.

You just have to know to trust her. She wouldn't still be with you, if she didn't like you more than other guys.
 

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I get really jelous too. The solution is COMMUNICATION. Tell her how and why you're feeling a particular way. If she disregards you, try and make her realise you're serious.
I get jelous easy cause my past two boyfriends started liking one of my friends [the same one] while we were going out lol. I noticed when they flirted and yeh I didn't talk to them about it, it just escalated and ended badly.
But chances are it's a personal issue of yours and you could just talk to her about it.
 

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