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chicky_pie
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ugly girls don't fight back, in her case she will not fight back against me.
katie tully
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The main problem I see with it is lust and often the objectification of women. If you are associating it with porn or even sexual pictures in your head then it is clearly not holy or pure.
I think you largely answer your own question by saying that you struggle with it. If you struggle, that means part of you feels convicted when you do it, and try to stop. Don't ignore that conviction, it is usually the holy spirit prompting you. If you are seeking God then you will usually know when you do something wrong.
To me, it sounds like you know that you shouldn't be doing it, regardless of whether or not it is in the bible (which it isn't specifically mentioned. Sexual immorality, lust and maintaining purity is mentioned a LOT however). If it plays on your conscience don't look for a justification of it.
I think if you are spiritually mature then you will know how to recognise when you are doing/have done something you shouldn't. And it sounds to me like you know you personally shouldn't be doing it, so I suggest not to.
One last parting thought. What you feed grows, and what you starve grows. By perving at chicks, looking at porn, thinking about women etc. you are feeding the problem, and it will grow and be harder to break. It is important to recognise that even by looking at women you can be feeding the addiction, which is why if you continue to do those things you will eventually end back up where you started.
Try "starving" everything to do with the area, and with God's help and some accountability the habit will die. Job had to make a covenant with his eyes not to look at women (Job 31). Perhaps you should consider doing this too?
I think you largely answer your own question by saying that you struggle with it. If you struggle, that means part of you feels convicted when you do it, and try to stop. Don't ignore that conviction, it is usually the holy spirit prompting you. If you are seeking God then you will usually know when you do something wrong.
To me, it sounds like you know that you shouldn't be doing it, regardless of whether or not it is in the bible (which it isn't specifically mentioned. Sexual immorality, lust and maintaining purity is mentioned a LOT however). If it plays on your conscience don't look for a justification of it.
I think if you are spiritually mature then you will know how to recognise when you are doing/have done something you shouldn't. And it sounds to me like you know you personally shouldn't be doing it, so I suggest not to.
One last parting thought. What you feed grows, and what you starve grows. By perving at chicks, looking at porn, thinking about women etc. you are feeding the problem, and it will grow and be harder to break. It is important to recognise that even by looking at women you can be feeding the addiction, which is why if you continue to do those things you will eventually end back up where you started.
Try "starving" everything to do with the area, and with God's help and some accountability the habit will die. Job had to make a covenant with his eyes not to look at women (Job 31). Perhaps you should consider doing this too?
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i got to the second sentence and i'm like "wut, tully?"
katie tully
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True repentance is needed.The_highwayman said:
katie tully
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Do you really think it is possible to NEVER do it anymore?
Even if you know you won't ever marry? If you won't ever get married then you basically don't need it anymore then wouldn't it really be better to chemical castrate yourself by shutting down your hormone production? At least you have peace then. No more struggling.
Otherwise you will always struggle. If you don't try to do it then all you need is 1 sexual dream and when you wake up it will be the same as if you had watched porn. It makes no difference because the dreams are as real and then you will directly crave it again.
The problem is if you don't jerk off you will have nocturnal emissions BUT here's the problem. I don't think you can have wet dreams without sexual dreams because you need a trigger. You don't simply eject your load at night without trigger. The trigger is usually always a sexual dream this means even if you don't jerk off during the day you will continually have sexual dreams at night because otherwise your body cannot remove the stuff. Sounds great, huh?
Even if you know you won't ever marry? If you won't ever get married then you basically don't need it anymore then wouldn't it really be better to chemical castrate yourself by shutting down your hormone production? At least you have peace then. No more struggling.
Otherwise you will always struggle. If you don't try to do it then all you need is 1 sexual dream and when you wake up it will be the same as if you had watched porn. It makes no difference because the dreams are as real and then you will directly crave it again.
The problem is if you don't jerk off you will have nocturnal emissions BUT here's the problem. I don't think you can have wet dreams without sexual dreams because you need a trigger. You don't simply eject your load at night without trigger. The trigger is usually always a sexual dream this means even if you don't jerk off during the day you will continually have sexual dreams at night because otherwise your body cannot remove the stuff. Sounds great, huh?
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But what about the previously mentioned physical problems for males if they don't masturbate? What about preventing cancer?katie tully said:
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better to have cancer in this life than spend all eternity in hell!AusBluesMan said:
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How do you get cancer from not masturbating?AusBluesMan said:
Didn't you just see my solution? Chemical castration.
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hXc christians practise martyrbation rather than masturbationWill Shakespear said:
thats right.
katie tully
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Apparently if you go to bed with a full bladder it helps.sam04u said:
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I dunno, one of my guy friends said that if he goes to bed with a full bladder, or drinks a lot before going to bed, he will spoof his pants for sure.sam04u said:
Not with urine.
ClockworkSoldier
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What if you want to have kids? And if you already have some, what if you want another or more?katie tully said:
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You must think ahead.
katie tully
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Then you should abstain from having lustful thoughts.AusBluesMan said:
Commit yourself only to your wife, not to those lustful tramps who would otherwise sully your mind.
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you're such a retardation