Ladies: do you care if your man goes to a strip club? (1 Viewer)

[robbie1]

i recently turned 18 and of course my mates took me 'out'

had a great time and enjoyed the 'show'

i dont have a gf, so i feel no guilt at all

but if i had one, i dont kow how i would feel going to these places

how do girls feel about it?

 

[Danni07]

It depends, can I come too?
I wouldn't care as long as there was no touching involved, it's the same concept as watching porn, and if anything i think it's more of an outing with the boys more than primarily to look at naked girls.

 

[Ranger Stacie]

my bf went to a strip club in syd a few weeks ago, i really dont care much. he says that out of his whole group, it was only one person who wanted to go.

 

[!! CaR`JiE !!]

i would be lil worried, but i still let him go. " you can look but can't touch or anything more" .. if i dont care abt my bf watching p0rn then i dont think i make a fuss abt him going to strip club. I don't think he wud go.. lol but never know, men *rolleyes*

 

[xox_eMz_xox]

I'd be like 'why do you want to go see other girls for?' at first, then i think i'd settle into the idea it would just take some getting used to seeing his never been before.

 

[Smokey_22]

Everyone knows strip club birds aren't real birds....

Let him go - he'll appreciate you all the more!

 

[dynamic22]

your getting used to the idea?????

only if there is no touching?????

what the FUCK is wrong with you people??!!!!

I know now there is the latest craze of trying to look cool and watch porn with ur bf and go to strip clubs together or even letting him do it himself.

But what the fuck ever happned to decency and respect.

And please please please you CANNOT argue that it is respectful for him to watch porn and go to strip clubs.

My god, you girls are fucking stupid as.

Your the bunch of girls that put other girls through pain.

You are telling him its acceptable to disrespect you and other female bodies.
You are teaching him to gaze at other females but yet you want him to be faithful and trustworthy? YOUR TEACHING HIM THE OPPOSITE

i am so shocked, im speechless

 

[mr_brightside]

your getting used to the idea?????
only if there is no touching?????
what the FUCK is wrong with you people??!!!!
I know now there is the latest craze of trying to look cool and watch porn with ur bf and go to strip clubs together or even letting him do it himself.
But what the fuck ever happned to decency and respect.
And please please please you CANNOT argue that it is respectful for him to watch porn and go to strip clubs.
My god, you girls are fucking stupid as.
Your the bunch of girls that put other girls through pain.
You are telling him its acceptable to disrespect you and other female bodies.
You are teaching him to gaze at other females but yet you want him to be faithful and trustworthy? YOUR TEACHING HIM THE OPPOSITE
i am so shocked, im speechless

omg! values! other crap! respect!

Its just live porn.
If you dont like it, get the fuck off the intraweb.
why? cause its full of porn

OMG DISRESPECT LOL TRUST pr0n VALUES OMG

 

[dynamic22]

honey i bet you believe in free speech as well. yeah?

I know everyone will go against EVERYTHING i said,

but my god you people are stupid

 

[mr_brightside]

honey i bet you believe in free speech as well. yeah?
I know everyone will go against EVERYTHING i said,
but my god you people are stupid

Free speech? why yes.
.....so my beliefs make me stupid huh?
You just got yourself a big cup of irony babe

 

[dynamic22]

and your beliefs derive from the non-intellectual pool of conformitism.

By accepting and promoting bf's to go to strip clubs and watching porn teaches both how males should think of females and sex and it sets the standards for women.

Btw, your male and of course you'll defend your presumed 'rights' of sexual freedom. Sexual freedom that us females dont have.

And because these girls letting their bfs think like this, it represses us. For us to be great sex partners, to TRUELY fulfil the wildest dreams of our bf's we must look to porn to see how its done, porn sets our standard.

Anything less and we are not performing.

Any girl who has done something sexually that she truely didnt want to do, whether she was pressured or felt she 'had' to will agree with me. It hurts and its painful.

So to let ur bf go to strip clubs and to then come home back to you, just dont wonder why guys perve, why they talk dirty, why they watch porn.

Its a supported culture that is designed to repress true female sexuality.

Any academic will agree with me, so please dont try to submit your opinion as though it is a well-supported, intellectual arguement.

It has no merit

 

[mr_brightside]

Then is it wrong of me to let my bf go to strip clubs?
Should I feel uncomfortable he's looking at nekkid people?

 

[withoutaface]

and your beliefs derive from the non-intellectual pool of conformitism.

By accepting and promoting bf's to go to strip clubs and watching porn teaches both how males should think of females and sex and it sets the standards for women.

Btw, your male and of course you'll defend your presumed 'rights' of sexual freedom. Sexual freedom that us females dont have.

And because these girls letting their bfs think like this, it represses us. For us to be great sex partners, to TRUELY fulfil the wildest dreams of our bf's we must look to porn to see how its done, porn sets our standard.

Anything less and we are not performing.

Any girl who has done something sexually that she truely didnt want to do, whether she was pressured or felt she 'had' to will agree with me. It hurts and its painful.

So to let ur bf go to strip clubs and to then come home back to you, just dont wonder why guys perve, why they talk dirty, why they watch porn.

Its a supported culture that is designed to repress true female sexuality.

Any academic will agree with me, so please dont try to submit your opinion as though it is a well-supported, intellectual arguement.

It has no merit

My ex acted nothing like a porn star in the bedroom, that doesn't mean she wasn't an awesome root, and personally if she wanted to watch porn or go to male strip clubs I wouldn't have had a problem with that either.

Your name isn't Germaine by any chance is it?

 

[flipsyde]

porn is ayok

Remember this though... you can't speak for everyone that works in that industry. Sadly for some women its their only source of income. On the other hand, stripping is just wel... dancing really and some people arent ashamed of their bodies... no stripping, no money, no food tonight.


As far as disrespecting women... You can call me weird if you like but I hate prostiution I think that that is disrespectful but generally with stripping the women dotn have a problem with their body and they aren't ashamed... they wanna be there (I had friends in the biz). Besides that they dotn have to 'strip' if they are'nt comfortable with it. They can just where skimpy outfits and dance on the poles...


Porn does not disrespect women, provided the women are there in the film willingly and not because the were forced into it/have to do it for a living but don't want to etc etc.

Try to think of it as...well do you like the movies? or the theatre? both maybe? so just say you went to the theatre and there was a show playing and all the women were naked in that show..well msot of them anyway and they were dancing around.. just because its in the theatre, would that make it ok for you? Porn is just like half the 'regular' movies in the world... most of them contain sex. Porn just has more sex in it than theatres allow for kiddies to see... If you saw a movie in the tcinema with lots of sex in it..does that make it ok then? I think thats better than some of the plot lines and themes in some of the movies that you see in cinemas.

As far as my boyfriend going to a strip club/watching porn... well I dont have a bf but if I did I'd eb completely fine with it, Id like to come along actually... just cos I've never been and wanna see what its like haha. But there would again be a no touching policy (even though you're not actually allowed to touch them) and no private room thingos on their own, and no spending too much money lol.

 

[Tulipa]

and your beliefs derive from the non-intellectual pool of conformitism.
By accepting and promoting bf's to go to strip clubs and watching porn teaches both how males should think of females and sex and it sets the standards for women.
Btw, your male and of course you'll defend your presumed 'rights' of sexual freedom. Sexual freedom that us females dont have.
And because these girls letting their bfs think like this, it represses us. For us to be great sex partners, to TRUELY fulfil the wildest dreams of our bf's we must look to porn to see how its done, porn sets our standard.
Anything less and we are not performing.
Any girl who has done something sexually that she truely didnt want to do, whether she was pressured or felt she 'had' to will agree with me. It hurts and its painful.
So to let ur bf go to strip clubs and to then come home back to you, just dont wonder why guys perve, why they talk dirty, why they watch porn.
Its a supported culture that is designed to repress true female sexuality.
Any academic will agree with me, so please dont try to submit your opinion as though it is a well-supported, intellectual arguement.
It has no merit

i don't agree with you. and i've been forced into certain situations that i have not agreed with.

i don't care if my boyfriend goes to strip clubs or watches porn or anything, i don't expect him to be perfect and only think of me but i know (cause i'm in a very good stable relationship) that he'll be faithful and it won't be detrimental to us.

i watch porn, i wouldn't mind going to strip clubs and sex? sometimes its fun! to be dirty. why? because i'm comfortable in my sexuality rather than repressed.

stop generalising.

 

[SuGa BunI =D]

strip club?why not
learn new techniques, please your man, its a win win situation

 

[shortie_689]

your getting used to the idea?????

only if there is no touching?????

what the FUCK is wrong with you people??!!!!

I know now there is the latest craze of trying to look cool and watch porn with ur bf and go to strip clubs together or even letting him do it himself.

But what the fuck ever happned to decency and respect.

And please please please you CANNOT argue that it is respectful for him to watch porn and go to strip clubs.

My god, you girls are fucking stupid as.

Your the bunch of girls that put other girls through pain.

You are telling him its acceptable to disrespect you and other female bodies.
You are teaching him to gaze at other females but yet you want him to be faithful and trustworthy? YOUR TEACHING HIM THE OPPOSITE

i am so shocked, im speechless

I totally agree with you on this... But when it comes down to it if I can't stop him there is the line where I don't wanna know anything about it

 

[MzbLaZeIT]

if its one off, then i wouldnt really care.. if it was a regular thing id be like hey whats going on?? lol
ill give him his own private strip show!

 

[AsyLum]

dynamic22, i bet you whip your man into submission for looking at other women as well

 

[SmokedSalmon]

I don't care if my boyfriend went to a strip club or watched porn. I watch porn too and if any of my friends (that are girls) are up for it I'd definately go to a male strip club. I don't think its wrong what we do, like Tulipa, I'm comfortable with my sexuality.
Although some people may differ in opinion on this matter; believing it is wrong and it's teaching ur boyfriends to disrespect women, then so be it. Your entitled to ur own opinion, but don't start carrying on and calling us stupid and nieve and other derogatory names.
Anyway, in lighter news, my friends are planning to hire a male stripper for my next b'day! yay!