mega streisand love octagon situation (1 Viewer)

[Atticus.]

ive got this mate who ive known for quite a bit
he recently started going out with this girl
i became good friends with the girl
probably as good a friends as i am with the guy
he is being a sly cat and treating the poor girl like a sack of shit cheating on her at every opportunity
he is still a good mate

SO

do i not tell the girl?
do i tell the girl?
do i make it so that the girl finds out but i am not implicated in the process of her finding out?
do i tell my mate he is being a cunt of a kid?
holy shit batman do i really care enough to do anything????

 

[ediisjoz]

Tell the mate he is being a cunt, if you didnt care, then you wouldnt have posted this thing, tell him if he doesnt treat her right, that you will tell her.

 

[Atticus.]

Tell the mate he is being a cunt, if you didnt care, then you wouldnt have posted this thing, tell him if he doesnt treat her right, that you will tell her.

im not going to lie i was preety bored this morning

 

[Atticus.]

im not going to lie i was preety bored this morning

and please be serious, do guys speak like that to each other... i want real world suggestions here!

 

[ediisjoz]

hahah. well then let it slide if you really don't care that much. but wouldnt you feel bad if she was like intensely hurt that u didnt tell her? (worse case scenario i'm gearing you up for here).

 

[ediisjoz]

if you're really good friends with him, then i think you should, i think its important to be honest about opinions, i mean if someones treating someone like shit, regardless of who they are i'll pull them up on it...

 

[Skeeta]

my boyfriend was in this situation and he just told the barstard (his brother), that he was a barstard (him an his long term g/f was on a break,but he only did it so he could sleep around)

he denied it of course, but he said he was sick of him being a cunt, and that this girl was part of the famiily etc

so yeah it does happen

please tell him he is a cunt

 

[withoutaface]

Don't tell her directly. Make it such that she 'finds out by herself'.

 

[Atticus.]

hahah. well then let it slide if you really don't care that much. but wouldnt you feel bad if she was like intensely hurt that u didnt tell her? (worse case scenario i'm gearing you up for here).

yeh thats a good point...
but then again i dont heaps want to get involved but id rather she find out now rather than later because i know how into the guy she is
i guess its being cruel to be kind because the longer it goes on the more shattered she will be when she finds out

the question is HOW does she find out? do i tell her?
its not like i havent spoken to him, i said (and so have a few of us who know) she would find out and the girl would be devestated and he pretends every time he regrets it... till the next time i see him out at it again haha

 

[Oddy Nocki]

ive got this mate who ive known for quite a bit
he recently started going out with this girl
i became good friends with the girl
probably as good a friends as i am with the guy
he is being a sly cat and treating the poor girl like a sack of shit cheating on her at every opportunity
he is still a good mate

SO

do i not tell the girl?
do i tell the girl?
do i make it so that the girl finds out but i am not implicated in the process of her finding out?
do i tell my mate he is being a cunt of a kid?
holy shit batman do i really care enough to do anything????

Don't tell the girl outright (he is your mate). Tell your mate that he can do what he likes but you're not going to cover him. Then if she asks just tell her.

 

[katy-g]

I'd choose the "make it so that the girl finds out but you're not implicated in the process of her finding out?" and the "tell ur mate he is being a cunt of a kid?" options.

 

[hyparzero]

i thought this thread had something to do with Barba Streisand....

 

[withoutaface]

It is, just you have to be a premium members to read the invisible ink messages about her.

 

[Atticus.]

It is, just you have to be a premium members to read the invisible ink messages about her.

exactly
and an update

the girl is and i quote "wigging out" because she suspects something

 

[Tulipa]

who's it tom? do i know them?

and if they've only started dating why is he cheating so much?

 

[Atticus.]

well when i say only started i mean like 6 months of being together but not official but about 2 months of official

 

[grk_styl]

I think u should tell ur mate that he's being a bastard. Then give him an ultimatum: "if you don't tell her, I will". Hopefully he'll tell her. lol

 

[Atticus.]

no ultimatums
it doesnt work like that unfortunatly