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meilz92

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tell her to cut up her arm rather then across
she'll die quicker that way
 

ekoolish

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wow...sounds like you've got a really serious situation here...

slugboy i already commented you but i'll add to it a bit on here...

she needs someone who understands her and that she can trust...i've been in this situation...on boths sides (but i never cut...ever) trust is a massive issue.

she needs to be able to talk to you without you judging her
never treat her like a child or tell her that its stupid

find the source of the problem (stress, abuse, etc?) and try and help with that
also tell her there is much better ways to get rid of the stress or depression....

help her start an "emergency box" tell her to fill it with everything she loves or that makes her happy... chocolate, candy, photos, jokes...maybe sometimes slip a letter in there for her...then whenever she feels like cutting make her go to that box and it should make her feel better...

i have more... but that's enough for now....
fuk i love detailed posts like this in trollariffic threads like this.
 

Lauchlan

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its the same as why people are addicted to smoking/drinking ect. it makes them feel different to compensate for something they are missing in their lives.

very possible that its depression.
 

Wait Disney

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Well, use all your relationship-brownie points as leverage and tell her to stop it (in a nice gentle voice) then hug her or some shit, and tell her how sad-faced it makes you.
 

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