need some suggestions (1 Viewer)

[daguze]

hi guys

k got a friend

he in deep shit with me best mate and his girly due to doing some things he shouldnt have done...best mate and girl now broke up...hes following the girl around after she told him to piss off

what should i tell him?

(none of this involves me)

just dont want him arrested for stalking or sexual harrasment etc..

is it to harsh to point out to him that he may be busted for it??

 

[Born Dancer]

im a bit confused..
but a couple of questions

1) how severly is he annoying her?
2) would he progress to serious stalking / harrassment?

anywho, its not your problem to but in. maybe just warn him to back off, but really, there's no huge reason for you to step in i guess unless it gets really serious

 

[Atticus.]

its not your business you medlling goose!
dont tell them anything and live your own life
/end

 

[daguze]

well...i can tell you know...hes gonna make it my problem...this guy is an absolute ass

and hes just annoying her atm...not sure how far he would take it, dont think he dumb enough to actually try stalking...but im not to sure

 

[Born Dancer]

this is like highschool.
leave it alone, yo.

 

[Lil Miss Karly]

If something happens and he gets in shit with the law for harrasing her then maybe that's just what he deserves....if he's too thick to realise the boundaries of appropriate and inappropriate behaviour then he should face the consequences.

 

[Calculon]

hi guys

There are girls here too you know.

k got a friend

Lie #1. You have no friends.

he

Lie #2. Should read "I".

in deep shit with me best mate

Lie #3. Once again, you have no friends.

and his girly

Lie #4. Should read "special manfriend".

due to doing some things he

Lie #5. Should read "I".

shouldnt have done...best mate and girl now broke up...hes

Lie #6. Should read "I'm".

following the girl around after she told him

"Me".

to piss off

what should i tell him?

"What should I do?"

(none of this involves me)

I think it's been quite clearly demonstrated that it does.

just dont want him

Him---> "to be".

arrested for stalking or sexual harrasment etc..

is it to harsh to point out to him

"Me".

that he may be busted for it??

End transmission.

 

[dodgyfilokid]

tell him to back off straight away..i know that your not involved but since you seem to be the only middle guy in the scenario then tell him to stop being stalkative (lol ahah) and back off the gal...what hes doin atm is not helpin his cause at all..he'll just cop all shit because hes gonna be portrayed as a relationship destroyer AND/OR stalker..but yeh help everyone involved doin so with the thing that you shouldnt get too involved

 

[Serius]

let me get this right, he isnt even stalking her? lol
not your business and theres no way he is going to "make it your business" this isnt the crusades and the girl doesnt need 'saving' if its such an issue to her she can take the appropriate steps, if that involves the police then so be it.

if you really want to say something then in a very non-confrontational way suggest to him it might be a bad idea to continue along that path. If he ignores your advice, not your problem.

 

[daguze]

two things

1. calculon you are a dickhead that cant read have a nice life

2. cheers for this dodgyfilokid v.helpful

tell him to back off straight away..i know that your not involved but since you seem to be the only middle guy in the scenario then tell him to stop being stalkative (lol ahah) and back off the gal...what hes doin atm is not helpin his cause at all..he'll just cop all shit because hes gonna be portrayed as a relationship destroyer AND/OR stalker..but yeh help everyone involved doin so with the thing that you shouldnt get too involved

 

[Calculon]

Whatever dude, at least I'm not stalking a chick I can never get.

 

[daguze]

wow


it can read badly

 

[Redgoddess]

daguze that was not a witty comeback. calculon was funny.

as for your situation, butt out. it doesnt even seem like you're particularly close friends with this guy who *might* stalk this girl, so who cares if the police get involved - not your problem. if you must get involved, i'm a big fan of bluntness, so tell him he's being a dickhead/fuckwit and to leave the girl alone as she clearly doesnt want him.