Porn & Relationships (1 Viewer)

[transcendent]

if that's the case then having a sexy car and lots of drug money will do it for my... friend

 

[transcendent]

*note to self: make lots of money and buy a sexy car

 

[transcendent]

Aston Martin Vanquish. i don't think i've ever heard a girl saying this was their favourite sexy car though. probably a Mercedes roadster of some sort or the Z4, Z3.

 

[transcendent]

you need to be able to afford one first. plus there should be a huge waiting period to get one if they aren't all sold out first.

 

[transcendent]

oh yeah SC430! yum!

 

[grk_styl]

i don't think i'd care if my boyfriend was watching porn.

but if my boyfriend looked at porn, not to learn something out of, but to just watch these sluts getting laid, then fuck that, what's the point of having a girlfriend if you wanna look at other chicks?

this lady has a point.

i've never been in the position where a boyfriend of mine has told me they watched it. i wouldn't want to know (unless it was weird porn fetishes, then i'd drop him like a pancake). if he was watching normal porn to jack off, then yeh i don't have a problem, but if it comes an obsession where he doesn't end up havign sex with me, then the porn has got to go.

it's all about finding an equilibrium

 

[Capitalist Pig]

i don't think i'd care if my boyfriend was watching porn.



this lady has a point.

i've never been in the position where a boyfriend of mine has told me they watched it. i wouldn't want to know (unless it was weird porn fetishes, then i'd drop him like a pancake). if he was watching normal porn to jack off, then yeh i don't have a problem, but if it comes an obsession where he doesn't end up havign sex with me, then the porn has got to go.

it's all about finding an equilibrium

I think if he was using porn as a replacement for sex it'd be indicative of a deeper problem (ie he's not attracted to you).

 

[grk_styl]

I think if he was using porn as a replacement for sex it'd be indicative of a deeper problem (ie he's not attracted to you).

yes then i'll get my cousins to kill the muthafucker

 

[MeehShanku]

lol. this thread is funni. Most girls here say that they dont care if their bf was watchin porn. (good on them) but on the "wats cheatin" thread or sumthin (i dun no the name), girls sayin that bf fantasising over a girl would classify as cheatin. i mean wats the differences? ur bf is fantasisin how he wants to bang the chick whos being pumped.

 

[sparkl3z]

yeah...that's what i said....he doesnt need to be physically touching a girl, even fantasizing about someone is a no no.....i mean....it's his brain that matters, and if his brain is saying other girls, then GETTHEFUCKAWAYFROMME to that.

 

[Collin]

yeah...that's what i said....he doesnt need to be physically touching a girl, even fantasizing about someone is a no no.....i mean....it's his brain that matters, and if his brain is saying other girls, then GETTHEFUCKAWAYFROMME to that.

It's human nature. Are you saying you've never seen another hot guy and fantasized about him, just for a second? The reality is the guy wouldn't be acting on it, hence I don't see the problem. It's his brain indeed, and since it's human nature to admire other girls if they're hot.. it's a bit out of his control to help it isn't it? So if you were to punish for that, I'd say you're slack.

 

[sparkl3z]

yeah, ok for single.....but when you're with someone, and fantasizing another girl....what's that then? besides, if you love your gf, then why would you wanna see another girl "sexually"?

 

[Collin]

No offence, but I don't think you get it. It's human nature to do so. Whether or not you're taken or not is arguably irrelevant. Even if you're taken, sometimes you may see a member of the opposite sex who is unbelievably hot. You may think about them sexually for a split second or so, not because you want to, but because you can't really help it. That's why it's only split second. Like I said before, I'm sure you've had quick sexual thoughts about other guys whilst in a relationship. It's essentially out of your control and it's not something you'd act on it anyway, so what's the big deal? Even when you acknowledge someone of the opposite sex is hot, you were judging him on sex appeal. I'm sure when you're out with your girls, you have talked about random guys being hot. I don't think this should be an issue, because nothing is being acted on.

 

[sparkl3z]

*shrugs*.......your opinion......but I can seriously say that I havent thought about anyone in that way besides the person that i'm with, I don't see the need to, when I wasnt in a relationship then yeah, I would be like hey this guy is kinda hot etc but when i'm in a relationship then I don't think about any other guys. I can say that a guy is nice or whatever but i don't say hey I want to fuck him, if it's uncontrollable then my brain was created in a different way. I just mean I would never accept a guy who fantasizes about other girls/looks at porn to see naked bodies of other girls for his pleasure while he's with me....how much commitment or value does a guy like that give to his gf? anyways that's only my opinion.

 

[Collin]

Well if you can honestly say that you don't acknowledge any other guy who you see as hot.. then I'd say that is fairly strange. Remember even when you notice a guy being hot, that meant that you would of had to check him out and then process the information within the area of your brain concerned with sex to deduce that he was sexually attractive.

As for finding a guy which matches your criteria.. good luck. A guy's mind thinks about sex alot. I would say even the most loyal guy would think about other girls sometimes (either via checking out, fantasizing, porn or whatever). Again, he's not acting on it.. so realise that he's still dedicated to you.

 

[hipsta_jess]

sparkles, you need to realise that sex with you and porn fulfil two completely different roles for guys and both are important. Just because a guy watches porn doesn't mean he wants to be with some other chick, or that you aren't doing enough for him or whatever, porn and you are two separate, unrelated entities.

 

[Collin]

sparkles, you need to realise that sex with you and porn fulfil two completely different roles for guys and both are important. Just because a guy watches porn doesn't mean he wants to be with some other chick, or that you aren't doing enough for him or whatever, porn and you are two separate, unrelated entities.

I agree 100000%.

 

[sparkl3z]

hahaha...ok ok, i'll calm down.....but...I already have a guy, and he does not check out porn, and he knows very well that if he even thought about another girl in a xxx way that i'd chop his head off...I think I am harsh, and have high standards haha...but that's what he get's for being with me, he accepts that, and I accept him for other things...anyways maybe i'm just a jelous girl..I don't know, but yeah....I just don't like the idea of my bf with other girls...lol...even if he doesnt touch, just thinkin about it....eww.......

 

[hipsta_jess]

Just because you don't know about it doesn't mean it doesn't exist...in all reality, despite what he tells you to the contrary, its almost guarenteed he does view it in some description.

 

[Collin]

Just because you don't know about it doesn't mean it doesn't exist...in all reality, despite what he tells you to the contrary, its almost guarenteed he does view it in some description.

Yep, like I said before if he even views a girl as hot, he must have been checking her out. I.e 'thought', according to you sparkl3z. Don't be so unrealistic. Just because he's thinking about it doesn't mean he's not loyal to you. And yes, I do think you're a jealous girl. Or atleast extremely protective and insecure.