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Dating/Relationships are stupid and cringe


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synthesisFR

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YOU LITERALLY TOOK BIOLOGY
no you dont understand i did it in year 11
i was still bombarded with propaganda and absolutely brainwashed

i made it to the other side
the government just wants people to indulge in these things so they put extra hormones in the water to make people get urges that lead to reproduction (too sinful to say s*x)

anyways drink filtered water you will see that most people are actually asexual aromantic its just a scam to keep you distracted so u never get out of the rat race whilst staying jn the working class forever
 
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someone sent one of those depressed i will never have a gf reel in the gc which inspire dm eto make this post

think about it. at 18 and uni everyone tries to get into relationships but it is such a waste of time

most of the relationships dont even last they just ruin memories

firstly you need to spend money on them which is already crazy in this economy like bruh you buy your own milkshake. going on dates is expensive as hell as well. wasting money on a 'significant' other is a waste of money. they are insignificant in the grand scheme of things.

apparently there is this lonliness epidemic or something going about atleast i see it with some people and its crazy like bruh go do something with your life your 18 some crying about not finding the love of you life stop wasting away your life doing nothing but being depressed and watching depressing reels. then theres the incels and the femcels on instagram.. get a job and laugh at couples for wasting their time... statistically most will fall apart

also have to emotionally support someone sounds exhausting bruh

and being romantic is kinda cringe like why act like that then when yall break up yall start being more emotional like nah bro this ur fault
and s*xually not worth it either (statically most people men and women get post nut clarity then cringe afterwards)

oh yh to end on a less extreme note just wanted to add in that if you get/getsomeone pregnant that is a bit of a sticky situation.

> this isnt my true skibidi sigma alpha lone wolf mewing all the rizzlers away from the gyatts whilst ordering gramce shakes and spilling it over dior dior jackets attitude either, dont accuse me or you WILL fall into generational aura debt and lose your ohio priviledges you do not want to be opps with me lil bro the fries int he bag are getting goofed up bro so do not take the L, kind regards mango mango
i am aware this is satire, and agree that realistically almost none of the relationships formed at this age will survive, and if they do, are subject to their own problems by reason of a limited to exposure to relationship dynamics outside of one formed during school.

but even if a relationship ends or fails eventually, there is still value in the experience. i would easily say that engaging in one or several relationships that ends provides a lot more opportunity to develop as a person than simply abstaining from romantic interaction at all. if you take a purely transactional approach to money, or even time, there is no end to that line of argument, and there will always be subjectively better uses of time or money. hypothetically you could spend each free hour working, and saving every cent in a high interest savings account and living off the bare minimum, but i think most would agree that isn't a particularly fulfilling way to live.
 

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i am aware this is satire, and agree that realistically almost none of the relationships formed at this age will survive, and if they do, are subject to their own problems by reason of a limited to exposure to relationship dynamics outside of one formed during school.

but even if a relationship ends or fails eventually, there is still value in the experience. i would easily say that engaging in one or several relationships that ends provides a lot more opportunity to develop as a person than simply abstaining from romantic interaction at all. if you take a purely transactional approach to money, or even time, there is no end to that line of argument, and there will always be subjectively better uses of time or money. hypothetically you could spend each free hour working, and saving every cent in a high interest savings account and living off the bare minimum, but i think most would agree that isn't a particularly fulfilling way to live.
so what should an aromantic asexual person do who physically cannot be attracted to or form connections with ppl

modern day life is about getting maried thrn have kids and raise them and die
but we cannot di that obviously so ehat do we do with life
 
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so what should an aromantic asexual person do who physically cannot be attracted to or form connections with ppl

modern day life is about getting maried thrn have kids and raise them and die
but we cannot di that obviously so ehat do we do with life
the experience of being in a romantic relationship is beneficial to those who intend to form said relationships on a long-term basis. if your hypothetical aromantic asexual individual has no desire for a relationship, then they have no need to engage in one and there is nothing wrong with that.

a majority of the principles that apply to healthy romantic relationships apply equally to interpersonal relationships. the same principles apply to the above individual in the sense that there is intangible benefit associated with the expenses of going out to eat or socialise that is offset by the subjective fulfilment they bring. romantic relationships are but one of a plethora of close interpersonal relationships that people are capable of having with each other.

'modern day life' isn't particularly susceptible to a definition of what it is about. if the objective of life in any time period was capable of simplistic definition, many acclaimed classical philosophers would find themselves lost to time. in any case, marriage has arguably depleted in social significance over time, and de facto relationships find themselves with equal recognition as to any right or treatment at law; the only legal relevance in marriage is as to divorce. you'll also find that australia's (and most other first-word nations) birth rate has steeply declined, and in the current socioeconomic climate, having children isn't a financially viable decision for many people anyway.
 
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the experience of being in a romantic relationship is beneficial to those who intend to form said relationships on a long-term basis. if your hypothetical aromantic asexual individual has no desire for a relationship, then they have no need to engage in one and there is nothing wrong with that.

a majority of the principles that apply to healthy romantic relationships apply equally to interpersonal relationships. the same principles apply to the above individual in the sense that there is intangible benefit associated with the expenses of going out to eat or socialise are offset by the subjective fulfilment they bring. romantic relationships are but one of a plethora of close interpersonal relationships that people are capable of having with each other.

'modern day life' isn't particularly susceptible to a definition of what it is about. if the objective of life in any time period was capable of simplistic definition, many acclaimed classical philosophers would find themselves lost to time. in any case, marriage has arguable depleted in social significance over time, and de facto relationships find themselves with equal recognition as to any right or treatment at law; the only legal relevance in marriage is as to divorce. you'll also find that australia's (and most other first-word nations) birth rate has steeply declined, and in the current socioeconomic climate, having children isn't a financially viable decision for many people anyway.
i agree with the last part people are finslly wakeing up and drinking filtered water as i mentioned a couple comments above

anyways i also find other interpersonal connections hard to maintsins bc people in general make me feel ehat i believe girls refer to as the ick. it feels disgusting when hanging out with prople. if they breathe too loud or sweat or are slightly dirty or cough or blow their nose or pretty much just exist normally it very much so irks me. i really dislike being around people in general. is it possible to br mentally health and sustain this if i chose to be alone forever
 

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i agree with the last part people are finslly wakeing up and drinking filtered water as i mentioned a couple comments above

anyways i also find other interpersonal connections hard to maintsins bc people in general make me feel ehat i believe girls refer to as the ick. it feels disgusting when hanging out with prople. if they breathe too loud or sweat or are slightly dirty or cough or blow their nose or pretty much just exist normally it very much so irks me. i really dislike being around people in general. is it possible to br mentally health and sustain this if i chose to be alone forever
bro r u ok
 

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i agree with the last part people are finslly wakeing up and drinking filtered water as i mentioned a couple comments above

anyways i also find other interpersonal connections hard to maintsins bc people in general make me feel ehat i believe girls refer to as the ick. it feels disgusting when hanging out with prople. if they breathe too loud or sweat or are slightly dirty or cough or blow their nose or pretty much just exist normally it very much so irks me. i really dislike being around people in general. is it possible to br mentally health and sustain this if i chose to be alone forever
were you born this way or is this a choice or product of trauma
 

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i am NOT twerking

anyways i asked if ur single are you?
ps i do not want u ur hsc was 2020 ur about to get nun from church status. start writing ur will ur almost gone. hope u have enough good deeds. 21 years old omg ancient.
why do you wanna know so badly 🤨 I'm not even old when there's ppl like sylvi and other oldies still roaming these parts
for those worried I don't like children
 

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why do you wanna know so badly 🤨 I'm not even old when there's ppl like sylvi and other oldies still roaming these parts
for those worried I don't like children
no im concerned your time is running out u need to find someone asap before your parents get an arranged marriage for you with your uncle/cousin

were you born this way or is this a choice or product of trauma
def not a choice. idk what trauma there is idk but it def feels natural. do yall NOT feel that same? i thought it was a normal feeling
 

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Relationships aren't pointless, but you shouldn't jump into one just for the sake of it or because all your friends at uni are doing it. If anything, you should take time to figure out who you are, what you like etc before entering a serious, committed relationship. Also not jumping into relationships straight away allows you to get to know potential partners better on a friends level, which will make a relationship stronger and more meaningful if you choose to enter one. Plus getting to know them better at this level helps you with dipping your toes in the water before you make a final decision on whether you want them to be with you or not. Admittedly, most uni relationships don't last, but meaningful ones do help you with rounding out your personality further and making you stronger as a person, so they do serve a purpose in the grand scheme of things.
 

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Bro why do you hate filtered water your teeth are NASTY they put fluoride in there to help your teeth. Personally I don't rinse my teeth after brushing so maybe I'm a bit more extreme but at least I won't get dentures at like 55
 

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no im concerned your time is running out u need to find someone asap before your parents get an arranged marriage for you with your uncle/cousin


def not a choice. idk what trauma there is idk but it def feels natural. do yall NOT feel that same? i thought it was a normal feeling
yeah its not natural to be "irked by people existing normally", like don't you also sweat and blow your nose do you get the ick from yourself too
and thanks for the concern abt my marriage means a lot that you care 😊
 

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this isnt my true skibidi sigma alpha lone wolf mewing all the rizzlers away from the gyatts whilst ordering gramce shakes and spilling it over dior dior jackets attitude either, dont accuse me or you WILL fall into generational aura debt and lose your ohio priviledges you do not want to be opps with me lil bro the fries int he bag are getting goofed up bro so do not take the L, kind regards mango mango
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